 I would love to preface this blog with a little forewarning! Its graphic and vulnerable. It's raw and real and it is my memoire only 1 week after my birth. I actually see it a lot differently now (one year on!), I have tried not to edit out anything only to fix typos as I want to share the true story. Now we are one year on I truely only remember it being absolutely beautiful and it was but it was also intense! Its amazing how the body and mind seems to dissolve so much. Almost as though your memory is painless. I think that's so we go back for more! All I remember is LOVE. So much love, love for my baby, love for my husband, love for the midwives who helped me on my journey. I Honestly am so excited to do it again one day. Though if I read this back I definitely feel a "Oh Wow" I remember now. Hahah! If you're a Mama to be, just know that its such a special journey and to give yourself time and space to absorb and work through your birth. It is a baptism of fire and an incredible path. Its a road where you completely lose yourself and then rediscover yourself all over again. I wish you all the love and joy on your journey and through the 4th trimester! Without further ado.... I was 40 weeks and 3 days on May 7th. I was sitting in my lounge room with my mother in law, sister in law and my 6year old niece. I was feeling tired but so happy to have them there. I had been trying to fill each day since 40weeks with lots of love and good feelings to boost the oxytocin and get labour going. It was late in the afternoon, around 5.30pm, I was sitting on the couch when I felt a bit of a weird gush. Not huge but still it caught my attention. I almost couldn’t tell if I had weed. My head went from concern to excitement in about point five of a second. I didn’t move for a moment then politely excused myself to the loo, I didn’t want to get anyone excited just incase I had indeed weed myself (not something I usually did but you never know when you’re pregnant). I went into the bathroom and grabbed a handful of toilet paper to dry myself and when I relaxed it was soaked completely. It wasn’t a big gush but seemed to release when I fully relaxed. I popped a pad in and kept thinking, "Is this it?" I walked back into the lounge room and smiling ear to ear said, "I think my water just broke, I don’t know if this is it, but it might be IT!!!" And did a little dance! I calmly ran (fast pace waddled!) to get my birthing ball so I could start doing some bouncing to open up my pelvis. It was a bit like the feeling you get before you walk through the gates of Disneyland or an amazing concert you’ve been anticipating forever. I think my MIL & SIL thought I was a little crazy since they had both been through labour. But I was so excited for labour. All my preparations were about to come into practice and I knew I was ready! My MIL & SIL left so I could focus and I was so excited how close we might be to meeting our little human! Come 8.30pm my contractions started. Not super intense, just like mild period pain. I rolled around my hips swaying on my ball and focused on my breathing whilst listening to my meditations from both hypo birthing and Nicola Laye. I decided to try sleep because (being my first pregnancy) I had this idea that I would be laboring for 30+hrs so laid down but I was just to excited to sleep. As the surges became a little more defined (feeling them begin and end). I told my husband Robbie that I thought this was it. I think up until that point the fluid and the period pain could have been passed off as normal pregnancy symptoms and Braxton hicks. But nope. This was it. I decided to use up some time, I moved into the shower with some candles and my positive affirmations and meditations on speaker. I focused on breathing and swaying my hips. I told Robbie to start packing the car so we could be ready. And that maybe we should watch a movie to take up some time. I started timing the contractions at 9.10pm. I moved into our room to dry off. Rob packed the car and started cleaning the house frantically. Putting away washing and mopping the floors. I wanted to go out and breathe in the cool air outside and be under the moon so I stood out on our driveway taking it in. It was the night of the Flower super Moon and somehow that felt so significant. As I breathed through contractions I was texting my mum and brother, who by this point had both insisted I go to the hospital because my waters had broken. Robbie and I were following hospital guidelines not to go to the hospital till I had 3×1min contractions in 10mins. But after receiving a screenshot of the hospital website from my brother, saying to go to the hospital if your waters break, we decided we should go. I really didn’t want to arrive to early to the hospital because its 30mins from our house and I didn’t want to be turned away to labour longer at home. Amidst contractions about 4 mins apart we dropped Daisy, our fur baby, off to my mums house (I wasn’t in a rush) and I listened to my meditations whilst breathing through them. During the car ride they become quite intense and by now, around midnight they were getting closer together. We got to the hospital car park had to stop a few times on the walk to the upper level door (not the main entrance)... due to Covid the door was locked. I laughed. And possibly cried because my slow shuffling had taken awhile to get there and surges were coming quicker. We pressed the buzzer and Robbie spoke to them and thankfully the security guard let us in. We presented to the labour ward and there was another couple there too. They nurses took the other couples temp and asked them all the Covid Questions (have you been in contact with anyone confirmed, have you travelled in the last 2 weeks, are you showing any flu-like signs of Covid). Next it was our turn. At this point I think my whole body that had been so relaxed and calm (and pretty excited) seized up. What if Rob had a temperature, what if he couldn’t come in with me. It was probably only 5 minutes but it was enough to take me out of my zone. We were all fine and our temps we fine. We passed the “test” and moved into the Maternity Antenatal Clinic (MAC) for them to assess me. We waited here for a little while whilst a midwife was called. I was connected to a heart rate monitor. By this point I was feeling a bit spacey. I couldn’t reign in my focus. The midwife was asking questions and Rob was answering for me because I was breathing and trying to focus. I decided to stop timing the contractions. The midwife was saying that if I was to be checked and wasn’t far enough along we would have to go home. I didn’t fully comprehend her questions but Robbie is a great translator and told me she was asking permission to check how far along I was. So she checked me and I was 4cm dilated and fully effaced. The surges were getting more intense. I had messaged Nicola (my breathing, birthing, and life coach! And all round amazing human creature) once the contractions started earlier. Right after I was checked she messaged to ask how I was going. At 1.40am in the morning she got out of bed to coach me via phone through the contractions. Moving from home to the hospital had thrown me a little and while I leaned over the bed in the MAC unit Nicola helped ground me down and breathe. I was then moved to the labour ward and we got ready. Once we got to the labour ward it feels a bit like a beautiful blurry whirlwind. When we arrived. Robbie started to unpack and get out the things I needed. Our speaker for the meditations, my snacks (the bag was HUGE) the battery-operated candles... Robbie couldn’t work the candles so brought them in. In my misty eyed labouring I couldn’t work them either. Rob said there was no batteries in them, “but they’re new”, I thought. The midwife ran out to see if she could find some for us. Goodness I thought I was so prepared. I had purchased a whole box of faux candles and forgot to put batteries in them. It seemed so stupid at the time. But turns out rob had picked up candles that had been left in the birthing suite, thinking they were mine. Hahaha. Our candles were still tucked away in the birthing bag, never to be used! Hahaha! Oh dear. I bounced on the ball for a short while and the midwife hooked up the gas I took the gas for a bit and then threw up multiple times. I then got in the shower to help take the pain away and laboured standing over a chair for a while. They then gave me a Maxalon shot to help with the nausea which it did and I was able to have the gas. I then requested more pain medication, as the contractions were getting more painful. They offered me morphine, at this point the pain was increasing rapidly and I wanted anything to help as I thought we would have quite a few hours of this labour ahead at this intensity I didn’t know how long I could go on. Robbie reminded me what would happen on the morphine, that I would be out of it and that it does affect the baby (if born within 3hrs of the shot the baby will need help breathing). So I declined it and asked for the epidural to happen ASAP. They tested my urine and they found ketones, as I was quite dehydrated from being quite ill. So they then moved me to the bed to put me on a drip and to take blood for the epidural. I was so dehydrated they were unable to get the cannula in for fluids. Eventually it was in and I moved to all fours leaning on the back of the bed. I laboured here for what felt like an eternity but was only about an hr. The cannula was knocked out of my hand because I was moving quite a lot. The anesthetist was waiting outside on blood results and ready to go. At 3.30am I was checked again and was 9cm dilated. The anesthetist came in and spoke to me. In a blur she told me that by the time the epidural works the baby will be here. I cried. Rob then asked if I could move to the bath. It felt like decades for it to fill. By this point I could feel baby moving down the birth canal. I felt stretched and was bearing down. I definitely felt a bit of panic in this moment. I didn’t have many fears surrounding birth but my biggest was if I felt the need for the epidural and it would be to late. My fear was here. The moment when they came in and told me that it was to late to have the epidural the fear took over me and I didn't think I could go any further. But I did...10 mins of pushing on the bed I got to move to my favourite place. The water. When I finally got in the bath I felt a rush of relief and a feeling of coming home. Something shifted and I was able to get my breath back and felt a lot more calm that this was now our final destination and the baby would be here soon. At this point I really focused on Robbie. He was talking me through my breathing and keeping me centered. He was amazing. The baby’s heart rate was checked between each contraction and for 28 mins I pushed. My midwives could see babies’ head. They said to me that after the next contraction to put my hand down they’re to feel his head. Something I was not keen on at all but in the blur I reached down and felt. That was my baby. My little human was nearly here. It gave me that little bit of hope and exhilaration. The next few pushes his head came in and out. The pain at this point was incredible but it was the strength to push I was lacking. I didn’t feel like the contractions were long enough to push him out. I could hear them discussing moving me to the bed I remember the midwife got my attention and made eye contact with me. She said on the next contraction I need you to really push. I could feel there was something a little stuck. I asked someone to hold my leg to push against. On the next push my baby arrived at 4.50am. Gently he was brought up to my chest where I held this sweet beautiful tiny little body on me. A tiny little being I had made and now birthed in a beautiful body of water under the super moon. The midwife asked if Robbie wanted to check the sex. A boy! "We have a boy, I have a son" I remember saying. Tears steaming down my face as wave after wave of emotion crashed over me - gratefulness, awe, love, exultation, pain, relief, power, mind blowing wonderment, love, gratitude, love, love, love and more love. Love for this tiny human, love for my husband who had gotten me through this incredible journey of pregnancy and birth and life. Love for the midwives who were so absolutely incredible and attentive. And a big sigh of relief and love for myself. I did it. I pushed my body to the edge of the precipice and didn’t think I could push it any further. But I did. I faced my biggest fear and came over the other side. A Warrior. A Goddess and now a Mother. I am now a mother. We have a son. Wolfgang Sydney Adrian A son.   The moment they put him in my arms. I felt the full weight of the last few hours. It was heavy in my heart. How could something so small and special cause such intense experience, your entire body working towards his arrival. Incredible and also hard. Incredibly hard. But so worth it.  All fresh, wrinkly and squishy.    Tears of joy and elation for our first feed. He latched like a pro and our breastfeeding journey was off to an incredible start - One year on he's still a bewb monstor!     NEVER . HAVE . I . EVER Been so overwhelmed with so many emotions... Love, Pain, Sadness, Joy, Honour, Doubt, Guilt, Happiness, Fear, Growth, Power, Trauma, Pride, Exhaustion, Exultation, Fascination, Defeat, Defiance, Overwhelm and yet being completely and utterly over the moon..... They say you cannot prepare for the birth of a child. And gosh that is the understatement of the century. The incredible journey to get here has been one that started many many moons ago. The waiting and wishing and hoping to conceive over many months. The joy and excitement of those double lines. Creating, growing and carrying a human whilst suffering from crippling nausea and vomiting for 8 months. Then finally labour for which I have few words to describe. Physically ripping your own body apart to allow this little being to enter the world. Becoming a mother for the first time. The awe inspiring unconditional love and pain for this tiny little person you just met. And now to be a parent and to sift through and ignore the right, wrong, correct, incorrect ways of the world and learning to just trust your instincts. What a journey it has been and I am so incredibly proud of myself in this moment and so honoured to have created such a beautiful little being. This little one is my one way ticket to motherhood! Still cannot believe it!  
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Hey Beautiful Mama! Technology is EVERYWHERE so why not let it help us out with a few little things that make life just that little bit easier. This is my list of TOP 5 apps for New Mamas! Total Game Changers in my opinion! 1. |
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DEAR MAMA TO BE //
I feel your heart from where i am. I know you're being strong.
You're trying to hide your scared eyes and yearning for the media to be wrong.
You find yourself hiding away in your home. You long for a world that is safe.
To bring your baby into this world, but right now feels its just not the case.
Your shower is cancelled or maybe your plans to catch up with family and friends.
To love & to laugh, have them fawn over you and feel babies kicks with their hands.
Your baby moon is off & your birth plan amended to account for the new rules laid down.
You know its for your safety & your babies sweet life but you cant help but feel so let down.
Your body is growing this little human, so long awaited & there’s no possible chance you can pause.
The world is still turning & days are all passing with fear and unknown behind every door.
This moment was yours, this time in your life to enjoy all the good times to come.
The weeks before you become a mama where all of your heart & attention is diverted from your lives to their one.
But that is all dimmed & now locked away in your house where you distance yourself from the world.
Attending appointments alone or worse on the phone, what used to be joyful, all now feels so cold.
But you will get through this, this time in your journey, finding an unknown strength you have got.
Your baby will come right into this world & this world as you know it will stop.
The moments you spend gazing at them, hearing giggles and counting their little toes.
You wont even notice the world will melt away with all of its worries & all of its woes.
Take a deep breath in & remember you have more gumption and grace than any of this overwhelming fear.
No matter the state of the world & its grieving. You need not let that grief in here.
Don’t fret or be scared in this moment sweet mama. We're all in this together you know.
That through thick & thin we will do this together and through all of these hard times we will grow.
When all this is over & the sun comes in shining, we'll know in our hearts how far we've come.
I hear you, i see you, i am you beautiful mama we can get through this together as one.
I feel your heart from where i am. I know you're being strong.
You're trying to hide your scared eyes and yearning for the media to be wrong.
You find yourself hiding away in your home. You long for a world that is safe.
To bring your baby into this world, but right now feels its just not the case.
Your shower is cancelled or maybe your plans to catch up with family and friends.
To love & to laugh, have them fawn over you and feel babies kicks with their hands.
Your baby moon is off & your birth plan amended to account for the new rules laid down.
You know its for your safety & your babies sweet life but you cant help but feel so let down.
Your body is growing this little human, so long awaited & there’s no possible chance you can pause.
The world is still turning & days are all passing with fear and unknown behind every door.
This moment was yours, this time in your life to enjoy all the good times to come.
The weeks before you become a mama where all of your heart & attention is diverted from your lives to their one.
But that is all dimmed & now locked away in your house where you distance yourself from the world.
Attending appointments alone or worse on the phone, what used to be joyful, all now feels so cold.
But you will get through this, this time in your journey, finding an unknown strength you have got.
Your baby will come right into this world & this world as you know it will stop.
The moments you spend gazing at them, hearing giggles and counting their little toes.
You wont even notice the world will melt away with all of its worries & all of its woes.
Take a deep breath in & remember you have more gumption and grace than any of this overwhelming fear.
No matter the state of the world & its grieving. You need not let that grief in here.
Don’t fret or be scared in this moment sweet mama. We're all in this together you know.
That through thick & thin we will do this together and through all of these hard times we will grow.
When all this is over & the sun comes in shining, we'll know in our hearts how far we've come.
I hear you, i see you, i am you beautiful mama we can get through this together as one.
It's that time of year again!
The most wonderful time of the year is here and with it a divine selection of gift ideas from yours truly.
The most wonderful time of the year is here and with it a divine selection of gift ideas from yours truly.
INITIAL PENDANT
Who doesn't love getting jewelry for Christmas? These pendants are so elegantly simple with the added bonus of being personal.
Pretty, personal, perfection!
This is the top thing on my list with a "W" to signify the arrival of my beautiful little boy.
Who doesn't love getting jewelry for Christmas? These pendants are so elegantly simple with the added bonus of being personal.
Pretty, personal, perfection!
This is the top thing on my list with a "W" to signify the arrival of my beautiful little boy.
MATCHING CHRISTMAS PJS
Show your Christmas spirit in a set of super cute PJs! Target has this gorgeous wrapping paper style print in PJs for the whole family! I know what will be in our Christmas Box!
Show your Christmas spirit in a set of super cute PJs! Target has this gorgeous wrapping paper style print in PJs for the whole family! I know what will be in our Christmas Box!
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LUXEY CUP
How could I not include my favorite cup!
I absolutely adore my Luxey Cup, and with so many colours, sizes and styles to choose from, you're bound to find your perfect match.
How could I not include my favorite cup!
I absolutely adore my Luxey Cup, and with so many colours, sizes and styles to choose from, you're bound to find your perfect match.
SHAMPOO WITH A PURPOSE
I am loving these shampoo bars! Not only are they are Australian owned and made, but they're also vegan and environmentally friendly! With a shampoo bar to suit any hair type I just love how clean my fine hair feels and stays after washing, Shampoo With A Purpose is the perfect gift for the more eco-conscious beauties out there. Perfect for Kris Kringle or Stocking Stuffers.
I am loving these shampoo bars! Not only are they are Australian owned and made, but they're also vegan and environmentally friendly! With a shampoo bar to suit any hair type I just love how clean my fine hair feels and stays after washing, Shampoo With A Purpose is the perfect gift for the more eco-conscious beauties out there. Perfect for Kris Kringle or Stocking Stuffers.
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PRAM LINER
The perfect gift to keep bub comfy and make it super easy to keep your pram clean and chic.
These Audrey & Me pram liners come in super cute and customizable designs to suit every Mum & Bub!
The perfect gift to keep bub comfy and make it super easy to keep your pram clean and chic.
These Audrey & Me pram liners come in super cute and customizable designs to suit every Mum & Bub!
NOTE: Eeeek!! Ours just arrived in the mail! I could not resist sharing this with you!
We got reversible with "FOREST FRIENDS" on one side & "HAMPTONS" on the other!!!
We got reversible with "FOREST FRIENDS" on one side & "HAMPTONS" on the other!!!
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BEACH CART
A must-have for every beach Mama, this cart is great for keeping all your things together on those sandy dunes, picnic playdate or the farmers market and makes it super easy to get there!
A must-have for every beach Mama, this cart is great for keeping all your things together on those sandy dunes, picnic playdate or the farmers market and makes it super easy to get there!
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LUXE SILK PJs
For someone wanting a little more luxe, you can't go past these fabulous silk PJs. The exquisite satin feel is like butter on your skin, these dreamy jams are just gorgeous, beautifully cut in a classic PJ 2 piece and seriously the most delish feeling against your skin and available in Blush, White and Stone!
For someone wanting a little more luxe, you can't go past these fabulous silk PJs. The exquisite satin feel is like butter on your skin, these dreamy jams are just gorgeous, beautifully cut in a classic PJ 2 piece and seriously the most delish feeling against your skin and available in Blush, White and Stone!
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COFFEE
The Breville Oracle Espresso Machine is the perfect people pleaser for coffee lovers and their guests alike! Satisfy your coffee cravings with a barista style coffee at home. I hope santa leaves this under my tree! *wink wink husband!*
The Breville Oracle Espresso Machine is the perfect people pleaser for coffee lovers and their guests alike! Satisfy your coffee cravings with a barista style coffee at home. I hope santa leaves this under my tree! *wink wink husband!*
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BLUSHING TOTE
The most perfect carry all bag. Created in a divine full grain look leather. This tote is the perfect every day bag. Easy to throw a few things in and go. Perfect for lunch dates, work days and on the go and extra perfect with an added bag organiser inside to double as a nappy bag!
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Packing for hospital can be a little overwhelming. Not just because when you're around 35 weeks and you still haven't packed you're not sure if it's still to soon or maybe you should have done it ages ago. The whole not knowing when you're going into labour can be a weird limbo. I definitely recommend packing earlier rather than later. Put it all to one side in a bag and just tick off your list of things that are in there so if you go into labour early then you can (hopefully) quickly grab those remaining items you need before jumping in the car!
My labour progressed quite quickly but the contractions were fairly bearable up until about halfway through the car ride, so i did have a bit of time to pack everything I needed but as it goes we forgot plenty! Or at least I had forgotten where I had put things in the bag. Even though I was crazy organised I thought I left my phone charger but it was in my camera bag ("Electronics"!) and we totally forgot the birthing ball, but the hospital had one. The candles I had packed Robbie (husband) didn't see and he was trying to work the candles that were left in the birthing suite... They didnt work. But my Birth Story and Adventure, well, that's for another day! But ultimately whatever you forget you will make do. The hospital generally can provide what you forgot until you can find or get what you need.
Because we were unsure if we would be staying at the hospital when we first arrived (I had no idea how far along i was!). We left the suitcase in the car and just brought the birthing bag. I think this worked out well because we weren’t overwhelmed and carrying things in that were just for the birth. Particularly helpful if you’re bringing your own birth ball (so much to carry!). The only thing I didn’t pack was a onsie in the birth bag for baby to wear after birth! These were in the suitcase so I’ve popped it on the birth bag list!
TIPS
BIRTH:: Packing a separate birth bag gives you a less stressful experience when trying to find things you need. I definitely recommend going through this bags contents with your birth partner because it’s likely you will be sending them to grab everything out!
SUITCASE:: A wheelie suitcase is the best way to bring everything in for your stay. I used a carryon size with 2 separate halves (one for bub, one for mama!) I also used packing cubes to separate categories (nappy changes, Baby clothes, Mamas PJ’s and comfy clothes etc.) and then within the cubes used Ziplock bags to separate little outfits (onesie, hat, mittens) for baby!
Pre prepare anything for your birth announcement (if you’re doing one) like Welcome plaque or outfit and put their separately too. If adding a name to the plaque add a pen to write with in there as well.
My labour progressed quite quickly but the contractions were fairly bearable up until about halfway through the car ride, so i did have a bit of time to pack everything I needed but as it goes we forgot plenty! Or at least I had forgotten where I had put things in the bag. Even though I was crazy organised I thought I left my phone charger but it was in my camera bag ("Electronics"!) and we totally forgot the birthing ball, but the hospital had one. The candles I had packed Robbie (husband) didn't see and he was trying to work the candles that were left in the birthing suite... They didnt work. But my Birth Story and Adventure, well, that's for another day! But ultimately whatever you forget you will make do. The hospital generally can provide what you forgot until you can find or get what you need.
Because we were unsure if we would be staying at the hospital when we first arrived (I had no idea how far along i was!). We left the suitcase in the car and just brought the birthing bag. I think this worked out well because we weren’t overwhelmed and carrying things in that were just for the birth. Particularly helpful if you’re bringing your own birth ball (so much to carry!). The only thing I didn’t pack was a onsie in the birth bag for baby to wear after birth! These were in the suitcase so I’ve popped it on the birth bag list!
TIPS
BIRTH:: Packing a separate birth bag gives you a less stressful experience when trying to find things you need. I definitely recommend going through this bags contents with your birth partner because it’s likely you will be sending them to grab everything out!
SUITCASE:: A wheelie suitcase is the best way to bring everything in for your stay. I used a carryon size with 2 separate halves (one for bub, one for mama!) I also used packing cubes to separate categories (nappy changes, Baby clothes, Mamas PJ’s and comfy clothes etc.) and then within the cubes used Ziplock bags to separate little outfits (onesie, hat, mittens) for baby!
Pre prepare anything for your birth announcement (if you’re doing one) like Welcome plaque or outfit and put their separately too. If adding a name to the plaque add a pen to write with in there as well.
BIRTH BAG
Birth Plan/Preferences – Your birthing wishes are such an important part of the process. Things simply cannot be planned but having your preferences can help your birth team navigate your ideal birth.
Hospital “Blue Book” (or the likes) – The book or paperwork you receive when you begin visiting your hospital of choice.
Battery operated candles
Headphones/ear pods/Speaker & playlist – We had a speaker as well as earpods so I could play relaxing meditation music but have my birth affirmations in headphones
Laminated Affirmations/Birth Prompts – Laminated means they will stand out and easy to find in your bag. Also waterproof!
Heat packs/ Water bottle
Swimwear (if water birthing)
Bra/Underwear (stretchy & comfortable)
Dress/Nighty or Robe for labour
Snacks for Both You & Partner – I packed so much thinking we would be there for hours in labour (we weren’t labouring long!) but they ended up being great for the hospital stay
Water bottle + Straw – A straw allows you to stay in your zone and not have to think about tilting your head or moving.
Juice poppers &/or Coconut water! – Sugars & Electrolytes
Lip balm – Necessary! Your lips can get so dry, especially with dehyration
Hair Ties
Essential oils (If allowed) – A lot of birthing suites don’t allow clary sage but you can bring lavender for calm and relaxation or a peppermint for alertness. There is also rules around having a diffuser so make sure you check with your hospital. I took a few cotton balls to soak a little oil in and hold to my nose!
Receiving blanket
Onesie for baby upon arrival!
Birthing Ball – If it is your preference to use one! (Great for opening up the pelvis and getting baby into a good position! The hospital does have a few but if you’re set on having one its best to take your own
FOR MAMA
! x Pair Comfy Pjs (feeding friendly) – Classic pants and shirt PJs are great with buttons!
1 x Nighty (feeding friendly)- I bought a really stretchy oversized soft cotton nighty which was perfect
1 x Comfy Robe – I got a leopard print nighty and robe in case of any unwanted stains would be hidden!
2 x Nursing or Regular Singlet – I found that just regular stretch singlets were great, Im not a lover of bras when Im trying to sleep (even the soft ones in nursing singlets) but I lived in THESE for the first 6 weeks PP.
1 x Cardigan or Jumper – Something cosy but not too bulky so you can sleep in it if you need a little extra warmth but also can feed in it
1 x black tights – Black tights and Singlets became my mum uniform for the first 6 weeks It was Winter so I added a cute coatigan (long cardigan) so I would always be comfy enough to sleep in it but if someone arrived at the house or we had someone over for tea I was still reasonably dressed for 3pm in the afternoon! I just purchased 2 cheap pairs of THESE
1 x track pants - Warmth
6 x Black knickers (high waisted)
2 x pairs socks – Especially in hospital it can get a little chilly!
1-2 soft stretchy or maternity crops – I loved the triangle pull aside crops But the clasp bras are great too.
Slippers -
Going home outfit – Make sure its feeding friendly and something you feel beautiful in!
Shoes for going home – because the shoes you arrive in in the throws of labour may not be ideal!
Thongs for shower
TOILETRIES
Shampoo/Conditioner – That first time you wash your hair post labour is like an island holiday!
Shower Gel & loofah – Something natural without harsh chemicals and something that smells divine. I love (Love this one - https://www.woolworths.com.au/shop/productdetails/813638/?googleshop=true&store_code=woolworths_supermarkets_2512&cmpid=smsm:ds:GOOGLE:Woolies_8458_BAU_Shopping_LIA_All_WW-0001:PRODUCT_GROUP&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI5aGo6ObW6wIVViUrCh15QAqWEAQYASABEgIc9PD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds)
Face Moisturiser – I was completely obsessed with Rosehip oil during and post pregnancy. I lathered it on twice a day and it made me feel hydrated and human!
Face wipes
Toothbrush/paste
Hairbrush
1 Pack Maternity Pads – Have 1 pack in your suitcase but also 2-3 packs waiting for you at home!
1 Pack Depends Disposable underwear – Trust me! These are amazing! Comfortable on stitches or C-section wounds but also comfortable after all that has gone on “down there!” – I would wear these with a pad inside for extra protection and just change the pad regularly and underwear as needed.
Lansinoh Nipple Ointment – Amazing! Pure lanolin so safe for baby to suck on (don’t have to wash off before feeding) I also got a REALLY dry nose in hospital and would use this on my nose and lips.
Deodorant
Spray Bottle or PUMP bottle – To spray your privates while weeing, either that or a quick shower after each loo visit.
Reusable Bamboo breast pads – These are fantastic for when your milk comes in! Don’t want to ruin an outfit!
Haemorrhoid cream – If you’re having a natural labour you may need it! You don’t want to be caught without it if you do need it!
FOR BABY
Car seat Installed – Definitely worth installing your car seat from about 36weeks pregnant! You can DIY install or usually baby stores or mechanics can do it for a small fee
3-4 x New born Onesies – My little man was 3.3kg and was in 00000 for quite a while– I recommend taking a few in 2 different sizes depending on how your baby is tracking weight wise! If unsure bottoms and tops will generally fit more sizes/lengths! Also keep in mind the fit of a 00000 will differ from store to store (eg Bonds Onesies are LARGE! Kmart I found to be regular, Seed was fairly average, Best and Less are large but their Baby Berry range is smaller)
2 x Singlets – Particularly for winter babies to wear under onesies
Going home outfit – Something cute and comfortable
20x NB Nappies – Generally 7-12 Nappies a day in the early days
1 pack water wipes – I love these because they are 99% water and only 1% essential oil
1 x Warm Blanket
1 pair Booties/Socks
1 pair Mittens
1 x Beanie
Dummie/Pacifier (optional)
2 x Bamboo/Cotton Swaddles – Swaddling in the early days is fantastic, I also love the Love to Dream Sleeping bags.
Announcement plaque/outfit
Soft Toy (optional) – We love out little Jellycat Bunny (https://www.davidjones.com/brand/jellycat)
MISCELLANEOUS
Phone & charger – An extra long cord is great if you can get one, so you can stay in bed on your phone!
Wallet (Cash, Change, Id, Medicare Card)
Camera, Charger & SD card – Make sure you have all batteries charged and an extra SD card
Cosy Pillow & or Blanket – Something that feels like home and makes you feel cosy
Travel Coffee Cup - The little Styrofoam cups just don’t quite cut it
Breast Shields (optional)
Ice packs – Nipple and Perineum icepacks are a godsend
iPad & charger – Great for video chats and watching Netflix
Clothes for Dad/Birth Partner – Don’t forget a warm jumper for the air conditioning
Swimwear for Dad/Partner (Waterbirth)
Birth Plan/Preferences – Your birthing wishes are such an important part of the process. Things simply cannot be planned but having your preferences can help your birth team navigate your ideal birth.
Hospital “Blue Book” (or the likes) – The book or paperwork you receive when you begin visiting your hospital of choice.
Battery operated candles
Headphones/ear pods/Speaker & playlist – We had a speaker as well as earpods so I could play relaxing meditation music but have my birth affirmations in headphones
Laminated Affirmations/Birth Prompts – Laminated means they will stand out and easy to find in your bag. Also waterproof!
Heat packs/ Water bottle
Swimwear (if water birthing)
Bra/Underwear (stretchy & comfortable)
Dress/Nighty or Robe for labour
Snacks for Both You & Partner – I packed so much thinking we would be there for hours in labour (we weren’t labouring long!) but they ended up being great for the hospital stay
Water bottle + Straw – A straw allows you to stay in your zone and not have to think about tilting your head or moving.
Juice poppers &/or Coconut water! – Sugars & Electrolytes
Lip balm – Necessary! Your lips can get so dry, especially with dehyration
Hair Ties
Essential oils (If allowed) – A lot of birthing suites don’t allow clary sage but you can bring lavender for calm and relaxation or a peppermint for alertness. There is also rules around having a diffuser so make sure you check with your hospital. I took a few cotton balls to soak a little oil in and hold to my nose!
Receiving blanket
Onesie for baby upon arrival!
Birthing Ball – If it is your preference to use one! (Great for opening up the pelvis and getting baby into a good position! The hospital does have a few but if you’re set on having one its best to take your own
FOR MAMA
! x Pair Comfy Pjs (feeding friendly) – Classic pants and shirt PJs are great with buttons!
1 x Nighty (feeding friendly)- I bought a really stretchy oversized soft cotton nighty which was perfect
1 x Comfy Robe – I got a leopard print nighty and robe in case of any unwanted stains would be hidden!
2 x Nursing or Regular Singlet – I found that just regular stretch singlets were great, Im not a lover of bras when Im trying to sleep (even the soft ones in nursing singlets) but I lived in THESE for the first 6 weeks PP.
1 x Cardigan or Jumper – Something cosy but not too bulky so you can sleep in it if you need a little extra warmth but also can feed in it
1 x black tights – Black tights and Singlets became my mum uniform for the first 6 weeks It was Winter so I added a cute coatigan (long cardigan) so I would always be comfy enough to sleep in it but if someone arrived at the house or we had someone over for tea I was still reasonably dressed for 3pm in the afternoon! I just purchased 2 cheap pairs of THESE
1 x track pants - Warmth
6 x Black knickers (high waisted)
2 x pairs socks – Especially in hospital it can get a little chilly!
1-2 soft stretchy or maternity crops – I loved the triangle pull aside crops But the clasp bras are great too.
Slippers -
Going home outfit – Make sure its feeding friendly and something you feel beautiful in!
Shoes for going home – because the shoes you arrive in in the throws of labour may not be ideal!
Thongs for shower
TOILETRIES
Shampoo/Conditioner – That first time you wash your hair post labour is like an island holiday!
Shower Gel & loofah – Something natural without harsh chemicals and something that smells divine. I love (Love this one - https://www.woolworths.com.au/shop/productdetails/813638/?googleshop=true&store_code=woolworths_supermarkets_2512&cmpid=smsm:ds:GOOGLE:Woolies_8458_BAU_Shopping_LIA_All_WW-0001:PRODUCT_GROUP&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI5aGo6ObW6wIVViUrCh15QAqWEAQYASABEgIc9PD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds)
Face Moisturiser – I was completely obsessed with Rosehip oil during and post pregnancy. I lathered it on twice a day and it made me feel hydrated and human!
Face wipes
Toothbrush/paste
Hairbrush
1 Pack Maternity Pads – Have 1 pack in your suitcase but also 2-3 packs waiting for you at home!
1 Pack Depends Disposable underwear – Trust me! These are amazing! Comfortable on stitches or C-section wounds but also comfortable after all that has gone on “down there!” – I would wear these with a pad inside for extra protection and just change the pad regularly and underwear as needed.
Lansinoh Nipple Ointment – Amazing! Pure lanolin so safe for baby to suck on (don’t have to wash off before feeding) I also got a REALLY dry nose in hospital and would use this on my nose and lips.
Deodorant
Spray Bottle or PUMP bottle – To spray your privates while weeing, either that or a quick shower after each loo visit.
Reusable Bamboo breast pads – These are fantastic for when your milk comes in! Don’t want to ruin an outfit!
Haemorrhoid cream – If you’re having a natural labour you may need it! You don’t want to be caught without it if you do need it!
FOR BABY
Car seat Installed – Definitely worth installing your car seat from about 36weeks pregnant! You can DIY install or usually baby stores or mechanics can do it for a small fee
3-4 x New born Onesies – My little man was 3.3kg and was in 00000 for quite a while– I recommend taking a few in 2 different sizes depending on how your baby is tracking weight wise! If unsure bottoms and tops will generally fit more sizes/lengths! Also keep in mind the fit of a 00000 will differ from store to store (eg Bonds Onesies are LARGE! Kmart I found to be regular, Seed was fairly average, Best and Less are large but their Baby Berry range is smaller)
2 x Singlets – Particularly for winter babies to wear under onesies
Going home outfit – Something cute and comfortable
20x NB Nappies – Generally 7-12 Nappies a day in the early days
1 pack water wipes – I love these because they are 99% water and only 1% essential oil
1 x Warm Blanket
1 pair Booties/Socks
1 pair Mittens
1 x Beanie
Dummie/Pacifier (optional)
2 x Bamboo/Cotton Swaddles – Swaddling in the early days is fantastic, I also love the Love to Dream Sleeping bags.
Announcement plaque/outfit
Soft Toy (optional) – We love out little Jellycat Bunny (https://www.davidjones.com/brand/jellycat)
MISCELLANEOUS
Phone & charger – An extra long cord is great if you can get one, so you can stay in bed on your phone!
Wallet (Cash, Change, Id, Medicare Card)
Camera, Charger & SD card – Make sure you have all batteries charged and an extra SD card
Cosy Pillow & or Blanket – Something that feels like home and makes you feel cosy
Travel Coffee Cup - The little Styrofoam cups just don’t quite cut it
Breast Shields (optional)
Ice packs – Nipple and Perineum icepacks are a godsend
iPad & charger – Great for video chats and watching Netflix
Clothes for Dad/Birth Partner – Don’t forget a warm jumper for the air conditioning
Swimwear for Dad/Partner (Waterbirth)
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Sometimes in life we need a little reset. We tend to go through life and the motions of it without being fully aware or present in the direction we’re heading. Every now and then I find myself feeling a little bit lacklustre, like I’ve lost my direction or purpose. Ultimately I do believe that we’ll get to where we want to be or where we should be eventually but I am a huge believer in manifesting what we want our future to look like and living consciously in taking the steps to get there. That’s why I love answering these questions to help me get clear on where I am at in my life, where I want to be and what is truly most important to me. Each season of my life these things will shift and change and new achievements and directions might then set me on a completely new path or even just a slightly different trajectory.
I've out together a little guide to help you on your way to get a little clarity and motivation towards your life goals.
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I've out together a little guide to help you on your way to get a little clarity and motivation towards your life goals.
Grab your guide HERE
You're starting to get that thrill, the excitement of your baby soon to arrive but also a little niggling of fear and doubt as to how your baby is going to arrive.
I've had some beautiful women ask me how I prepared for labour and birth. Having shared so many of this with close friends who are about to give birth I wanted to share this with you too in hopes it may help you in some small way!
A few things I found incredibly helpful and a few things I wish I had have known before
"The Birth"...
1. REST WHEN YOU CAN
Get as much rest before birth and labour as you can but the biggest thing I would stress is sleep as soon as you can after labour.
It's so hard because there's so much adrenaline and excitement coursing through your body. But post birth your new baby is going to be exhausted after that big journey into the big world and they will sleep. Turn off your phone because all the well wishes will be there as soon as you wake up. If you don't get a good stretch of sleep post birth it's likely you may not get a good sleep for a long time.
It's really important for recovery and healing to get good rest and sleep and this is a good time! Which brings me to my next point
2. TAKE TIME FOR HEALING
No matter how your baby comes into the world you are going to have to heal.
Be kind to yourself and don't over do it. Be it a vaginal birth or c section your body has been through battle and its important to remember that even though you're looking after your new human, your body is going through some HUGE healing. So take it easy! Just because you've left the hospital does not mean you're ok to run around at home. You still need bed rest and time for your body to heal.
3. PREPARE FOR LABOUR
You can't plan for labour but you can prepare.
So many people kept telling me that you can't prepare for labour. To an extent I believe you can't plan it. But you can absolutely prepare for it. Education is so important when it comes to anything for me, particularly a journey like birth. You enter the hospital as a woman and leave a mama. It's like this incredible right of passage and it's a battle within those walls that you have to fight and win. And you will! Preparing for the fight, I think, was incredibly beneficial to me. Learning about pain management, the different stages of labour, your preferences for both you and baby.
Whilst I was still met with some big challenges, having knowledge around labour helped my husband and I make calculated decisions in the heat of the moment and also doing lots of work on breath and meditation in the lead up allowed me to relax and be in my body for the (majority!) of my labour! I worked with an amazing woman, Nicola Laye, who I met when I took her pregnancy pilates class in my last trimester (helping baby get in optimal position and learning birthing positions) she also specialises in breath and meditation and I worked with her coaching me in birth and breath during the last months of pregnancy during multiple sessions releasing fears, preparing and learning. She also mentored me during my labour (at 1am in the morning!) and it really helped to ground me and relax. She offers some really incredible breathing classes and workshops for pregnant and non pregnant women and couples! You can read more about her offerings here: https://www.nicolalaye.com
4. BIRTHING WISHES
A birth plan isn't about planning your birth, you simply can't plan it. But it's about educating yourself on your options and expressing your wishes or preferences for your birth. From pain management to environmental elements your wishes can be met to a certain extent. I found it so valuable to educate myself on all the ways labour can go. I loved listening to Australian Birth Stories podcast to hear all the ways women birth. It's not for everyone, some women feel the fear more when they hear bad stories but for me education and knowledge is power. Learning what can go wrong isn't to scare you, its empowering to understand the terms and procedures and what roads might lead to where. What practices you can implement if your birth doesn't go to plan and also knowing what's possible and your rights and options within the space you have chosen whether it be hospital, birth centre or home-birth.
I planned and wanted to give birth at the hospital, particularly for my first baby because it's where I felt my baby would be safest, should anything be wrong (a personal feeling and the right one for me). I found the hospital very flexible in regards to my wishes. Even though I had researched and requested quite a few wishes there wasn't any that were not met (including delayed cord clamping which is now standard practice, a calm, dark and quiet environment, the use of water as pain management in birthing pool and shower etc) usually around 28 weeks you discuss your birth plan with your midwife but there is so many great resources available online to help you write yours.
Also it's great to go through your birth preferences and plan with your birth partner so they can advocate for you.
5. PACKING FOR HOSPITAL
Have TWO seperate bags for the hospital - a birthing bag and a hospital bag - and go through your birthing bag with your birth partner and explain what each item is for. (I spent part of early labour kicking myself for not having batteries in my faux candles, turns out rob was using someone else's left in the birth suite 🤣) I've put together a list of my must haves for hospital and labour. Everyone swears by different items but this is a list of my essentials including a few must haves. HERE
I've had some beautiful women ask me how I prepared for labour and birth. Having shared so many of this with close friends who are about to give birth I wanted to share this with you too in hopes it may help you in some small way!
A few things I found incredibly helpful and a few things I wish I had have known before
"The Birth"...
1. REST WHEN YOU CAN
Get as much rest before birth and labour as you can but the biggest thing I would stress is sleep as soon as you can after labour.
It's so hard because there's so much adrenaline and excitement coursing through your body. But post birth your new baby is going to be exhausted after that big journey into the big world and they will sleep. Turn off your phone because all the well wishes will be there as soon as you wake up. If you don't get a good stretch of sleep post birth it's likely you may not get a good sleep for a long time.
It's really important for recovery and healing to get good rest and sleep and this is a good time! Which brings me to my next point
2. TAKE TIME FOR HEALING
No matter how your baby comes into the world you are going to have to heal.
Be kind to yourself and don't over do it. Be it a vaginal birth or c section your body has been through battle and its important to remember that even though you're looking after your new human, your body is going through some HUGE healing. So take it easy! Just because you've left the hospital does not mean you're ok to run around at home. You still need bed rest and time for your body to heal.
3. PREPARE FOR LABOUR
You can't plan for labour but you can prepare.
So many people kept telling me that you can't prepare for labour. To an extent I believe you can't plan it. But you can absolutely prepare for it. Education is so important when it comes to anything for me, particularly a journey like birth. You enter the hospital as a woman and leave a mama. It's like this incredible right of passage and it's a battle within those walls that you have to fight and win. And you will! Preparing for the fight, I think, was incredibly beneficial to me. Learning about pain management, the different stages of labour, your preferences for both you and baby.
Whilst I was still met with some big challenges, having knowledge around labour helped my husband and I make calculated decisions in the heat of the moment and also doing lots of work on breath and meditation in the lead up allowed me to relax and be in my body for the (majority!) of my labour! I worked with an amazing woman, Nicola Laye, who I met when I took her pregnancy pilates class in my last trimester (helping baby get in optimal position and learning birthing positions) she also specialises in breath and meditation and I worked with her coaching me in birth and breath during the last months of pregnancy during multiple sessions releasing fears, preparing and learning. She also mentored me during my labour (at 1am in the morning!) and it really helped to ground me and relax. She offers some really incredible breathing classes and workshops for pregnant and non pregnant women and couples! You can read more about her offerings here: https://www.nicolalaye.com
4. BIRTHING WISHES
A birth plan isn't about planning your birth, you simply can't plan it. But it's about educating yourself on your options and expressing your wishes or preferences for your birth. From pain management to environmental elements your wishes can be met to a certain extent. I found it so valuable to educate myself on all the ways labour can go. I loved listening to Australian Birth Stories podcast to hear all the ways women birth. It's not for everyone, some women feel the fear more when they hear bad stories but for me education and knowledge is power. Learning what can go wrong isn't to scare you, its empowering to understand the terms and procedures and what roads might lead to where. What practices you can implement if your birth doesn't go to plan and also knowing what's possible and your rights and options within the space you have chosen whether it be hospital, birth centre or home-birth.
I planned and wanted to give birth at the hospital, particularly for my first baby because it's where I felt my baby would be safest, should anything be wrong (a personal feeling and the right one for me). I found the hospital very flexible in regards to my wishes. Even though I had researched and requested quite a few wishes there wasn't any that were not met (including delayed cord clamping which is now standard practice, a calm, dark and quiet environment, the use of water as pain management in birthing pool and shower etc) usually around 28 weeks you discuss your birth plan with your midwife but there is so many great resources available online to help you write yours.
Also it's great to go through your birth preferences and plan with your birth partner so they can advocate for you.
5. PACKING FOR HOSPITAL
Have TWO seperate bags for the hospital - a birthing bag and a hospital bag - and go through your birthing bag with your birth partner and explain what each item is for. (I spent part of early labour kicking myself for not having batteries in my faux candles, turns out rob was using someone else's left in the birth suite 🤣) I've put together a list of my must haves for hospital and labour. Everyone swears by different items but this is a list of my essentials including a few must haves. HERE
*NOTE* - To a Friend, That's You, Mama to Be...
Birth and labour is such an incredible journey, no matter how your baby arrives into this world the ultimate goal is to get them here safely. Empowering yourself with the tools to take it on can give you a wider view and more confidence in your journey no matter what that journey entails. Birthing my son has been the most incredibly empowering and courageous thing I have ever done. The female body is beyond incredible and women have been giving life for thousands of years. Our bodies were designed for it, the biggest piece of advice is to trust yourself, trust your body and listen to it. treat it kindly pre and post birth and surround yourself with all the loving vibes. You've got this mama, I believe in you!
I'd love to hear if you have any extra helpful tips or comments you have that might help make the next Mama to Be's journey just a little bit better or easier! Please leave any special words of advice in the comments!
Birth and labour is such an incredible journey, no matter how your baby arrives into this world the ultimate goal is to get them here safely. Empowering yourself with the tools to take it on can give you a wider view and more confidence in your journey no matter what that journey entails. Birthing my son has been the most incredibly empowering and courageous thing I have ever done. The female body is beyond incredible and women have been giving life for thousands of years. Our bodies were designed for it, the biggest piece of advice is to trust yourself, trust your body and listen to it. treat it kindly pre and post birth and surround yourself with all the loving vibes. You've got this mama, I believe in you!
I'd love to hear if you have any extra helpful tips or comments you have that might help make the next Mama to Be's journey just a little bit better or easier! Please leave any special words of advice in the comments!
Celebration in the Sky.
Celebrating the impending arrival of a sweet bundle of joy has to be one of lifes greatest parties! We wanted to keep the gender of our baby a surprise (for us and the world!) so we creeated the perfect gender neutral baby shower with an "Up in The Sky" theme. With a palette of soft blue, white with a mix of neutrals with a pop of Gelato colours in the balloon garlands. Featuring soft white roses, dried florals and leaves with the added fun of our colourful “Hot Air Balloon” cake table, hot air balloon lanterns and fluffy white clouds! Such a fun way to celebrate amongst the clouds!
Celebrating the impending arrival of a sweet bundle of joy has to be one of lifes greatest parties! We wanted to keep the gender of our baby a surprise (for us and the world!) so we creeated the perfect gender neutral baby shower with an "Up in The Sky" theme. With a palette of soft blue, white with a mix of neutrals with a pop of Gelato colours in the balloon garlands. Featuring soft white roses, dried florals and leaves with the added fun of our colourful “Hot Air Balloon” cake table, hot air balloon lanterns and fluffy white clouds! Such a fun way to celebrate amongst the clouds!
Captured beautifully by the amazing Kaitlin Maree Photography, each little element came together so beautifully. It's amazing how it can be so easy to create a really beautiful expensive looking themed event with a little thought and preparation. The key for me (being rather pregnant and of course being a host) was to have everything as ready as possible ahead of time (ays or weeks ahead) so that it could all just come together on the day. It was a week and a day of crazy rain so we were very grateful to have some amazing helpers (brothers, husbands and friends) help on the morning.
We created centrepieces from faux flowers and dried pampas, bunny tails and a few sprigs of dried wheat which I think set the scene beautifully. This meant that on the day they were ready to pop on the table and I didn't have to worry about running around for fresh flowers. Propping them up on top of these centrepiece stands (which can be purchased on eBay in gold) I spray painted these white to match the theme. I wanted a bit more of a formal seating arrangement so we had cute little place cards made with little wooden clouds on each plate. (matching white plates purchased from Kmart for a bargain at 75cents!) The table cloths are also from Kmart and were perfect as they were extra large with a linen like texture and their length and width meant they cascaded beautifully to the floor. Chair covers really can tie the entire look together and give a uniform and blank canvas for the theme and table setting to just POP! They can be hired relatively cheaply from a Party Hire and we went with the amazing Elite Weddings and Events who have such a great range and cater to small and large events!
The gorgeous Sky Themed cake was created by ever amazing The Sweet Society Co and all were just as incredibly delish as it looks!!!! The cake looked absolutely perfect underneath our gorgeous HOT AIR BALLOON! This was created with an extra large round wicker basket, a few wooden dowels from Bunnings and a gorgeous Gelato balloon arrangement put together by my sister in law & I!
A little drink station put together by my mama with a little Signature Cocktail of hers (alcoholic and virgin available!) kept us all smiling. Add in some champagne and bottled water (all essential for any event really!) My amazing bestie put together some fun party games and event favours of delish Melting Moment cookies in little cloud themed gift boxes. They were so cute and all the ladies loved taking a little taste home.
My hair and makeup was done by the ever amazing Bella Brides! Unfortunately the rain and humidity did nothing nice for my hair but the makeup stayed put ALL DAY! Given I was 29 Weeks pregnant these ladies somehow made me feel like a total queen. And of course my little sequin dress was Begitta, I love this dress created in our Soleil fabric with a soft nude underlay. It showed off my bump and I felt like a rockstar!
We created centrepieces from faux flowers and dried pampas, bunny tails and a few sprigs of dried wheat which I think set the scene beautifully. This meant that on the day they were ready to pop on the table and I didn't have to worry about running around for fresh flowers. Propping them up on top of these centrepiece stands (which can be purchased on eBay in gold) I spray painted these white to match the theme. I wanted a bit more of a formal seating arrangement so we had cute little place cards made with little wooden clouds on each plate. (matching white plates purchased from Kmart for a bargain at 75cents!) The table cloths are also from Kmart and were perfect as they were extra large with a linen like texture and their length and width meant they cascaded beautifully to the floor. Chair covers really can tie the entire look together and give a uniform and blank canvas for the theme and table setting to just POP! They can be hired relatively cheaply from a Party Hire and we went with the amazing Elite Weddings and Events who have such a great range and cater to small and large events!
The gorgeous Sky Themed cake was created by ever amazing The Sweet Society Co and all were just as incredibly delish as it looks!!!! The cake looked absolutely perfect underneath our gorgeous HOT AIR BALLOON! This was created with an extra large round wicker basket, a few wooden dowels from Bunnings and a gorgeous Gelato balloon arrangement put together by my sister in law & I!
A little drink station put together by my mama with a little Signature Cocktail of hers (alcoholic and virgin available!) kept us all smiling. Add in some champagne and bottled water (all essential for any event really!) My amazing bestie put together some fun party games and event favours of delish Melting Moment cookies in little cloud themed gift boxes. They were so cute and all the ladies loved taking a little taste home.
My hair and makeup was done by the ever amazing Bella Brides! Unfortunately the rain and humidity did nothing nice for my hair but the makeup stayed put ALL DAY! Given I was 29 Weeks pregnant these ladies somehow made me feel like a total queen. And of course my little sequin dress was Begitta, I love this dress created in our Soleil fabric with a soft nude underlay. It showed off my bump and I felt like a rockstar!
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I absolutely love an event! I love planning and creating a mood board, I love dreaming up how to style a space and adding fun DIY ideas. So when it came to my baby shower that I had been dreaming up for so long I knew I would have the time of m life with the theme. After being so ill throughout my whole pregnancy I felt I had lost some of that excitement and joy that I had expected during what I had anticipated would be a beautiful blooming time for me! So my best friend and I planned it together so I could find some joy in putting together the celebration and it was such a beautiful day amongst all the women I hold most dear!
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Special thanks to some incredible people who helped make this day amazing - all the amazing women and brothers/husband who assisted on the day
Photography: Kaitlin Maree Photography
Hair and Makeup: Bella Brides
Cake & Tarts: The Sweet Society Co
Dress: Begitta
Chair Covers: Elite Weddings and Events
Photography: Kaitlin Maree Photography
Hair and Makeup: Bella Brides
Cake & Tarts: The Sweet Society Co
Dress: Begitta
Chair Covers: Elite Weddings and Events
,A long awaited story of our journey to our double lines! If I am honest, I was a bit apprehensive to share our story with the world, I was scared that something might go wrong or it would all be too good to be true. But now I am so excited to share this little glimpse of our journey.
Growing up I always dreamed of having a beautiful little family. I've always wanted 3 kids. So funny when you’re 13 and you picture your life, I wanted to have met the love of my life by 21, be married at 23 & have 3 kids by 28 with a house. HA! Well at 23 I dove into the world of business. I worked as a freelance stylist until I could save enough to follow my passion to Paris to study Fashion, Specifically Haute Couture (High Fashion). Which I did with a short stint studying in London as well. I made my way home and started my business. Since then I have worked endlessly creating my dream world in business. Working with some incredible people and along the way met and married my Prince Charming in our dream wedding, on a beautiful September day, fit for a story book! Now In my early 30s that 13 year olds idea of life was a bit off, but trusting the timing of my life has worked out pretty well so far!
Growing up I always dreamed of having a beautiful little family. I've always wanted 3 kids. So funny when you’re 13 and you picture your life, I wanted to have met the love of my life by 21, be married at 23 & have 3 kids by 28 with a house. HA! Well at 23 I dove into the world of business. I worked as a freelance stylist until I could save enough to follow my passion to Paris to study Fashion, Specifically Haute Couture (High Fashion). Which I did with a short stint studying in London as well. I made my way home and started my business. Since then I have worked endlessly creating my dream world in business. Working with some incredible people and along the way met and married my Prince Charming in our dream wedding, on a beautiful September day, fit for a story book! Now In my early 30s that 13 year olds idea of life was a bit off, but trusting the timing of my life has worked out pretty well so far!
My beautiful husband Robbie and I wanted kids straight away. We wanted a honeymoon baby and to start building our family as quick as we could. Rob wants 4! Eeek!
Our honeymoon was amazing and to be honest we thought we would get pregnant fairly quickly. Don’t we all! I haven’t ever taken contraception, I am relatively active and eat well and healthily and I don’t drink much. For some of the lucky ones it does just happen in one month but for us it seems, we weren’t those people.
In the first few months of our marriage we opened a business with my parents. I became the worlds greatest juggler running both my successful business and helping to build up a new one. We worked our butts off, dealing with both business and family issues. A long road we had not foreseen would be quite so rocky. Months went by and each and every month when my monthly cycle would reveal itself I was disappointed. At first Rob was a bit confused that it didn’t just happen. I knew that it would likely take maybe a few months. But each month got harder and harder as what felt like a lifetime went by.
I prepared my body by nourishing it with good food, prenatal vitamins, I stopped drinking alcohol completely, I visited the naturopath and took herbs to ensure a regular cycle. I eliminated toxins in our house and made all natural cleaning sprays (chemicals can mimic hormones in our body! Did you know that?). I began to track my cycle with ovulation kits and ensuring I knew when our fertile period was. I was doing everything right, or at least I thought I was. But each month when my period arrived I was so disappointed. The first few months I expected it but as time went on I got really down. Each month Rob would say something supportive; “it’s not our time”, “try not to overthink it”. Trying not to overthink it while doing everything right is like trying to drive a car blindfolded.
The year began to roll by, February, March, April…. May, June,… Nothing. Plenty of phantom signs of pregnancy. Sore breasts, campiness, headaches. People would make comments. Family and friends who knew we wanted to start a family would mention babies and I would feel pretty useless. Beginning to doubt my body and my abilities as a woman. You really don’t want to let those feelings in but boy do they infiltrate your heart and mind. I ran into a girl I went to school with a few grades below me, pregnant and beautiful and glowing. I said Hi and was genuinely happy for her. But the moment I turned away from that conversation I had tears in my eyes. I wanted it so bad. July came and went and I basically just said “Fuck it” I don’t even think I want this anymore. I have big plans for the next 3 years of my life and business and a baby isn’t going to fit anyway! HA!
Robbie and I had some holiday time in August available to us. I wanted a holiday that we didn’t have to think about anything. Just eat, drink and enjoy sun and sand. So we booked a cruise to get away from life for awhile.
Our honeymoon was amazing and to be honest we thought we would get pregnant fairly quickly. Don’t we all! I haven’t ever taken contraception, I am relatively active and eat well and healthily and I don’t drink much. For some of the lucky ones it does just happen in one month but for us it seems, we weren’t those people.
In the first few months of our marriage we opened a business with my parents. I became the worlds greatest juggler running both my successful business and helping to build up a new one. We worked our butts off, dealing with both business and family issues. A long road we had not foreseen would be quite so rocky. Months went by and each and every month when my monthly cycle would reveal itself I was disappointed. At first Rob was a bit confused that it didn’t just happen. I knew that it would likely take maybe a few months. But each month got harder and harder as what felt like a lifetime went by.
I prepared my body by nourishing it with good food, prenatal vitamins, I stopped drinking alcohol completely, I visited the naturopath and took herbs to ensure a regular cycle. I eliminated toxins in our house and made all natural cleaning sprays (chemicals can mimic hormones in our body! Did you know that?). I began to track my cycle with ovulation kits and ensuring I knew when our fertile period was. I was doing everything right, or at least I thought I was. But each month when my period arrived I was so disappointed. The first few months I expected it but as time went on I got really down. Each month Rob would say something supportive; “it’s not our time”, “try not to overthink it”. Trying not to overthink it while doing everything right is like trying to drive a car blindfolded.
The year began to roll by, February, March, April…. May, June,… Nothing. Plenty of phantom signs of pregnancy. Sore breasts, campiness, headaches. People would make comments. Family and friends who knew we wanted to start a family would mention babies and I would feel pretty useless. Beginning to doubt my body and my abilities as a woman. You really don’t want to let those feelings in but boy do they infiltrate your heart and mind. I ran into a girl I went to school with a few grades below me, pregnant and beautiful and glowing. I said Hi and was genuinely happy for her. But the moment I turned away from that conversation I had tears in my eyes. I wanted it so bad. July came and went and I basically just said “Fuck it” I don’t even think I want this anymore. I have big plans for the next 3 years of my life and business and a baby isn’t going to fit anyway! HA!
Robbie and I had some holiday time in August available to us. I wanted a holiday that we didn’t have to think about anything. Just eat, drink and enjoy sun and sand. So we booked a cruise to get away from life for awhile.
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We had an amazing time, I threw all my cares out the window. I drank too many cocktails and ate all the glorious foods and desserts. We nearly got left on an island because we hiked up a mountain Rob was desperate to scale (after a $70 steak it was the last thing I wanted to do!). We met some really lovely people and had a lovely trip. Until the last 2 days sailing home! It was 4-4.5meter waves and I was sick as a dog! I don’t really get seasick usually but our room was at the front of the boat and boy I got hit hard.
Upon returning home I was still walking with a sway for a week. I was suffering from vertigo and had a headache and vomiting about a week later. Then thankfully the sea-legs wore off a little but something still felt off.
I woke up early one Monday morning (Rob Usually sleeps in till late on a Monday because he works nights Thursday-Sunday). At this point my period was a day late but I really didn’t think much of it. I decided I would do a test. I had a few cheap eBay test (like 30 of them! HA!) so I used one of those. I showered, brushed my teeth and hair and washed my face. I was about to walk out of the bathroom when I remembered the test.
I took a quick look… What?! No…. Theres a REALLY faint line there! By this point I knew that any line even small as a positive can be a positive especially in early pregnancy. I took it outside into the sunlight, I kept saying to myself don’t get excited. It’s a false positive. Or it’s your eyes. I really didn’t want to be let down yet again. Especially when last month I had literally had said “FCUK it all! So I dipped a First Response (a real test I said in my head) and there it was 3 minutes later. An unmistakable second line. Darker than dark. There-r than there! I cried. I danced. I didn’t want to believe it.
Upon returning home I was still walking with a sway for a week. I was suffering from vertigo and had a headache and vomiting about a week later. Then thankfully the sea-legs wore off a little but something still felt off.
I woke up early one Monday morning (Rob Usually sleeps in till late on a Monday because he works nights Thursday-Sunday). At this point my period was a day late but I really didn’t think much of it. I decided I would do a test. I had a few cheap eBay test (like 30 of them! HA!) so I used one of those. I showered, brushed my teeth and hair and washed my face. I was about to walk out of the bathroom when I remembered the test.
I took a quick look… What?! No…. Theres a REALLY faint line there! By this point I knew that any line even small as a positive can be a positive especially in early pregnancy. I took it outside into the sunlight, I kept saying to myself don’t get excited. It’s a false positive. Or it’s your eyes. I really didn’t want to be let down yet again. Especially when last month I had literally had said “FCUK it all! So I dipped a First Response (a real test I said in my head) and there it was 3 minutes later. An unmistakable second line. Darker than dark. There-r than there! I cried. I danced. I didn’t want to believe it.
I took my time to breath. I looked at myself in the mirror, looked in my eyes and said out loud “You’re pregnant”… “We’re pregnant”! I really could not believe my own words.
So I sort of floundered around… I actually felt like I was having an out of body experience. I wanted to laugh, cry, run to Rob and jump on the bed. But No. I had to tell him in a special way. So I put together a little box. Inside the box I put a little romper suit (I had purchased because it was adorable, even if a little pre-emptive!) the pregnancy test, a little handkerchief for happy tears and I wrote on the inside of the lid “Hello Daddy”. I then sat around for what felt like years until he woke up. Ok Ok I jumped on the bed a few times to wake him and tried to get him up. Between trying to wake him up I made myself a tea and some toast and the FINALLY he was awake! I hid my camera and made him come into the room where I said I had an early Wedding Anniversary present. He opened it and I think he was a bit awestruck. We hugged and we just so over the moon excited.
So I sort of floundered around… I actually felt like I was having an out of body experience. I wanted to laugh, cry, run to Rob and jump on the bed. But No. I had to tell him in a special way. So I put together a little box. Inside the box I put a little romper suit (I had purchased because it was adorable, even if a little pre-emptive!) the pregnancy test, a little handkerchief for happy tears and I wrote on the inside of the lid “Hello Daddy”. I then sat around for what felt like years until he woke up. Ok Ok I jumped on the bed a few times to wake him and tried to get him up. Between trying to wake him up I made myself a tea and some toast and the FINALLY he was awake! I hid my camera and made him come into the room where I said I had an early Wedding Anniversary present. He opened it and I think he was a bit awestruck. We hugged and we just so over the moon excited.
Have a peek at this little video - I secretly filmed telling Robbie, I cry every time I watch it!
The beautiful thing was we were to celebrate our Wedding Anniversary that weekend! Such an exciting thing to share joy in over a weekend Celebrating a BIG year!
In hindsight a year really wasn’t the longest time to hope to conceive. I know that for many couples it can take years and years. But the entire journey has truly opened my eyes to how hard the ‘Trying to Conceive’ (TTC) journey can be. For all the women going through that monthly roller coaster cycle. The ups the downs the optimism, hope and excitement shortly followed by disappointment, doubt, shame, sadness. I want to say to those women that I am here. To support you and to understand how incredibly hard that is. My story isn’t as hard as some but it certainly took me on a journey I was not prepared for. I am so grateful we have been so blessed and honoured to be able to conceive and I have been able to carry a child. We’re so excited to be parents!
In hindsight a year really wasn’t the longest time to hope to conceive. I know that for many couples it can take years and years. But the entire journey has truly opened my eyes to how hard the ‘Trying to Conceive’ (TTC) journey can be. For all the women going through that monthly roller coaster cycle. The ups the downs the optimism, hope and excitement shortly followed by disappointment, doubt, shame, sadness. I want to say to those women that I am here. To support you and to understand how incredibly hard that is. My story isn’t as hard as some but it certainly took me on a journey I was not prepared for. I am so grateful we have been so blessed and honoured to be able to conceive and I have been able to carry a child. We’re so excited to be parents!
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- Our Family Christmas Snaps -
2019
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"Wise men say
Only fools rush in
But I can't help falling in love with you..."
Words I sing to my baby in the shower as he or she grows within my belly. Despite being incredibly unwell this entire pregnancy I cannot help but love our little bebe. Growing a human has been so incredibly taxing on my body so it was sooo wonderful to take the time to get pretty and feel like a total goddess with the amazing Claire Elise Photography - we had a little opportunity in all this Covid chaos to make a little magic and be creative. Such a special time for me as a woman to be carrying our little bebe and I am so grateful to have the opportunity to capture this moment before I become a mama! Wearing Begitta Couture of course!
Only fools rush in
But I can't help falling in love with you..."
Words I sing to my baby in the shower as he or she grows within my belly. Despite being incredibly unwell this entire pregnancy I cannot help but love our little bebe. Growing a human has been so incredibly taxing on my body so it was sooo wonderful to take the time to get pretty and feel like a total goddess with the amazing Claire Elise Photography - we had a little opportunity in all this Covid chaos to make a little magic and be creative. Such a special time for me as a woman to be carrying our little bebe and I am so grateful to have the opportunity to capture this moment before I become a mama! Wearing Begitta Couture of course!
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PHOTOGRAPHY: Claire Elise Photography
BLUE GOWN: Begitta Bridal & Couture
Crochet Gown: Monsoon London (purchased many years ago!)
BLUE GOWN: Begitta Bridal & Couture
Crochet Gown: Monsoon London (purchased many years ago!)
Picking a bridal gown for your dream day is tough, but picking the perfect suit with your groom can be tougher. The amazing team at Black Jacket Suiting will make the entire process a breeze. Not only accomodating a dapper groom but ensuring your groomsmen look sharp as well.
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Meeting Ryan from Black Jacket Suiting for our first appointment to chat all things suits was really so simple. Robbie had a moderate idea of what he wanted for his Wedding Attire and Ryan refined the choices. Not only working with Robbie to custom create his dream bespoke outfit (with custom embroidery inside with our wedding date and his name! #STOP!) but also offering tailored affordable suits to our amazing groomsmen.
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Black Jacket Suiting offers the WHOLE package. From Suit and Tie to shirts, shoes and even cuff links! Robbie's Wedding Squad looked totally on point in their amazing suits. We were so blown away with the ease of the service and the incredible styles available.
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Robbie kept his suit a surprise until I saw him the moment those church doors opened. And DAMN did my husband look amazing! I seriously fall more and more in love with him in each of these photos. Even when we're old and grey I still think he'll be the most dapper gentleman around.
A hand picked edit by yours truly, if you're looking for something to gift your favourite person or maybe need a few ideas for a little gift to you from you. Here are a few things I am totally crushing on for the Christmas season!
MERMAID HAIR STYLER
Who doesn't love having soft, beautiful, beachy waves! The tutorials for this look super easy, putting the perfect wave at your fingertips! I am yet to try it myself but fingers crossed Santa puts one under my tree!
Who doesn't love having soft, beautiful, beachy waves! The tutorials for this look super easy, putting the perfect wave at your fingertips! I am yet to try it myself but fingers crossed Santa puts one under my tree!
LUXE SILK PJs
The only PJ'S you will ever want to wear. Beautiful silk PJ's that breathe, with a loose fit that skims the skin and makes you feel as though you're laying in butter. Available in Blush, White and Stone. The perfect attire for sleep ins and lazy days this Christmas and every day thereafter!
The only PJ'S you will ever want to wear. Beautiful silk PJ's that breathe, with a loose fit that skims the skin and makes you feel as though you're laying in butter. Available in Blush, White and Stone. The perfect attire for sleep ins and lazy days this Christmas and every day thereafter!
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SKIN CARE
A firm favourite for my pamper nights. Wild Healing has absolutely beautiful organic skin care.
I am obsessed with the Australian Pink Clay Mask. It makes my skin so soft and smooth and really cleans my pores.
A firm favourite for my pamper nights. Wild Healing has absolutely beautiful organic skin care.
I am obsessed with the Australian Pink Clay Mask. It makes my skin so soft and smooth and really cleans my pores.
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GLASSHOUSE CANDLES
I have been a huge fan of Glasshouse candles for as long as I can remember. I will literally just take the lid off and enjoy the sweet scent that fills the room, before you've even lit it! A little bit in love with MONTEGO BAY (Lemon and Lime oils, Vanilla, Amber, Mandarin and Coconut), it is the perfect Summer scent for long BBQs at sunset by the pool. AMALFI COAST (Musk, patchouli, lime, thyme, freesia, lavender) is dreamy for a pamper night in. At the moment we have KAKADU (Water Lily, Spring Orange Blossom, Precious Woods and Amber) burning in the studio and it is absolutely DIVINE! A clean but fragrant smell that makes us dream of pretty dresses!
With such a beautiful selection of scents, it's easy to find one (or ten) you'll love!
I have been a huge fan of Glasshouse candles for as long as I can remember. I will literally just take the lid off and enjoy the sweet scent that fills the room, before you've even lit it! A little bit in love with MONTEGO BAY (Lemon and Lime oils, Vanilla, Amber, Mandarin and Coconut), it is the perfect Summer scent for long BBQs at sunset by the pool. AMALFI COAST (Musk, patchouli, lime, thyme, freesia, lavender) is dreamy for a pamper night in. At the moment we have KAKADU (Water Lily, Spring Orange Blossom, Precious Woods and Amber) burning in the studio and it is absolutely DIVINE! A clean but fragrant smell that makes us dream of pretty dresses!
With such a beautiful selection of scents, it's easy to find one (or ten) you'll love!
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DREAMY SATIN ROBE
What could be better in summer than slipping into a soft satin robe in the morning or slipping out of one at night. The most beautiful soft blush colour and the perfect little gift for your mummy or a gorgeous bride-to-be.
Use the code "BRIDESMAID" to get 20% off & free shipping when you purchase 2 or more robes!
Valid until 25/12/19
What could be better in summer than slipping into a soft satin robe in the morning or slipping out of one at night. The most beautiful soft blush colour and the perfect little gift for your mummy or a gorgeous bride-to-be.
Use the code "BRIDESMAID" to get 20% off & free shipping when you purchase 2 or more robes!
Valid until 25/12/19
CUTE CLUTCH POUCH
This darling Leather Curve Pouch from Kikki.K is available in a range of colours and is super versatile. Whether it's to keep your makeup essentials in one place or to keep your personal items safe on a fun night out, this little pouch will fit perfectly into your life.
This darling Leather Curve Pouch from Kikki.K is available in a range of colours and is super versatile. Whether it's to keep your makeup essentials in one place or to keep your personal items safe on a fun night out, this little pouch will fit perfectly into your life.
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CUSTOMIZE IT!
Check out the amazingly talented Paper Pickle for unique, hand painted customization on any leather product.
ENDLESS EVE SPARKLE DRESS
This absolutely dazzling sequin dress is the perfect ensemble to ring in the New Year or any special occasion. Perfect for dancing the night away or delicately sipping champagne, you will be the true centre of attention in this confection!
This absolutely dazzling sequin dress is the perfect ensemble to ring in the New Year or any special occasion. Perfect for dancing the night away or delicately sipping champagne, you will be the true centre of attention in this confection!
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WOODEN ADVENT CALENDAR
I love advent calendars and this little wooden house is absolutely perfect, and BONUS: it lights up! This has to be the best way of giving myself (or someone else) a little treat each day leading up to my favorite holiday.
I love advent calendars and this little wooden house is absolutely perfect, and BONUS: it lights up! This has to be the best way of giving myself (or someone else) a little treat each day leading up to my favorite holiday.
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CATS EYE SUNGLASSES
Uplifting any outfit from basic to super glam! These oversized cats-eye black or white sunglasses are the perfect addition to any look. Arrives in a cute signature blush pink soft case.
Use code "XMASCAT" to get 15% off and Free Postage Aust wide
Valid until 25/12/19
Uplifting any outfit from basic to super glam! These oversized cats-eye black or white sunglasses are the perfect addition to any look. Arrives in a cute signature blush pink soft case.
Use code "XMASCAT" to get 15% off and Free Postage Aust wide
Valid until 25/12/19
BEGITTA & ROBBIE
You are my sun, My moon and All of my stars.
Days like these are the days of dreams. Long kept in the heart from a young age. The moments you dream will take your breath away, standing at the top of the aisle and awaiting the moment when the music rolls in and you walk forward into a time portal that sucks you right into the next morning. What a whirlwind a day like that day is.
As the sun rose over the fields of Queenslands beautiful Warwick. My maid of honour entered my room and opened the massive floor to ceiling 20ft long curtains of the exquisite bridal suite at the Abbey of the Roses. Built in 1891 to 1914 this heritage listed building looks like it was imagined straight out of a fairy-tale. With over 100 years of history this became my dream wedding venue from the moment I laid eyes on it in a photo on Pinterest. And now, years later it became the dream of my prince as well and today, we would be celebrating the happiest day of our lives here.
The week Rob proposed to me we were visiting Melbourne for Miss Universe Australia. For our anniversary he had booked the weekend at one of my favourite hotels, The Windsor. The following morning Robbie pulled out the luxe gold ‘Hotel Windsor’ embossed stationery and we decided we should write each other love letters and post them home. Something about snail-mail that is so special when you receive it, so we both went into our own little corner and wrote a little something then sealed off the letters to drop to the concierge to post. That night we got engaged.
Days after arriving home from our holiday the postman dropped off the most beautiful mail I have ever received.
A luxe gold embossed ‘Hotel Windsor’ envelope entitled “My Dearest Begitta” had arrived.
“My Dearest Begitta,
I write you this letter on the evening before I ask you a question that will forever change our lives. I write this with my heart full of love and my mind full of dreams for us.
I write this as a promise that I will forever be giving you my love and forever be trying my hardest to keep you happy.
As I write this letter you have no idea what I have in store for you but I will soon be the happiest man alive.
My sweet love, every moment with you is a dream come true.
Every kiss is passionate enough to make my heart skip a beat.
Every cuddle gives enough love to power a rocket to the moon.
To my future wife and mother to our future children, you are the reason I wake up every day and the reason my life is so wonderful.
With all of my love,
Your biggest admirer, Rob “
This letter is one of the most beautiful things I have ever received and became the theme and feel of our wedding. With quotes used from it throughout our dream day, from the vellum overlay on our invitations to glitter script written over the gown I wore for our first dance. Creating a day with lots of personal touches made our wedding so incredibly intimate and special. It was the most beautiful day of our lives and our love story feels more and more like a fairy-tale each time I relive it in my mind.
So here it is beautiful lovers, our wedding day with all the details! I am so excited to share them and even more excited to let you know that over the coming weeks and months I'll be visiting each of these amazing aspects in a dedicated blog. Sharing the nitty gritty of the decision making and the process! But for now, enjoy the dreamy images of what was the best day of our lives!
You are my sun, My moon and All of my stars.
Days like these are the days of dreams. Long kept in the heart from a young age. The moments you dream will take your breath away, standing at the top of the aisle and awaiting the moment when the music rolls in and you walk forward into a time portal that sucks you right into the next morning. What a whirlwind a day like that day is.
As the sun rose over the fields of Queenslands beautiful Warwick. My maid of honour entered my room and opened the massive floor to ceiling 20ft long curtains of the exquisite bridal suite at the Abbey of the Roses. Built in 1891 to 1914 this heritage listed building looks like it was imagined straight out of a fairy-tale. With over 100 years of history this became my dream wedding venue from the moment I laid eyes on it in a photo on Pinterest. And now, years later it became the dream of my prince as well and today, we would be celebrating the happiest day of our lives here.
The week Rob proposed to me we were visiting Melbourne for Miss Universe Australia. For our anniversary he had booked the weekend at one of my favourite hotels, The Windsor. The following morning Robbie pulled out the luxe gold ‘Hotel Windsor’ embossed stationery and we decided we should write each other love letters and post them home. Something about snail-mail that is so special when you receive it, so we both went into our own little corner and wrote a little something then sealed off the letters to drop to the concierge to post. That night we got engaged.
Days after arriving home from our holiday the postman dropped off the most beautiful mail I have ever received.
A luxe gold embossed ‘Hotel Windsor’ envelope entitled “My Dearest Begitta” had arrived.
“My Dearest Begitta,
I write you this letter on the evening before I ask you a question that will forever change our lives. I write this with my heart full of love and my mind full of dreams for us.
I write this as a promise that I will forever be giving you my love and forever be trying my hardest to keep you happy.
As I write this letter you have no idea what I have in store for you but I will soon be the happiest man alive.
My sweet love, every moment with you is a dream come true.
Every kiss is passionate enough to make my heart skip a beat.
Every cuddle gives enough love to power a rocket to the moon.
To my future wife and mother to our future children, you are the reason I wake up every day and the reason my life is so wonderful.
With all of my love,
Your biggest admirer, Rob “
This letter is one of the most beautiful things I have ever received and became the theme and feel of our wedding. With quotes used from it throughout our dream day, from the vellum overlay on our invitations to glitter script written over the gown I wore for our first dance. Creating a day with lots of personal touches made our wedding so incredibly intimate and special. It was the most beautiful day of our lives and our love story feels more and more like a fairy-tale each time I relive it in my mind.
So here it is beautiful lovers, our wedding day with all the details! I am so excited to share them and even more excited to let you know that over the coming weeks and months I'll be visiting each of these amazing aspects in a dedicated blog. Sharing the nitty gritty of the decision making and the process! But for now, enjoy the dreamy images of what was the best day of our lives!
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VENUE
Abbey of the Roses & St Marks Church
– Warwick QLD
The feel and the vibe of both these incredible venues was Grand-Old-World perfection.
Abbey of the Roses & St Marks Church
– Warwick QLD
The feel and the vibe of both these incredible venues was Grand-Old-World perfection.
PHOTOGRAPHY
Kaitlin Marie Photography
We chose the incredible Kaitlin Maree Photography to capture our day and was over the moon and so honoured to have the principle photographer from Just For Love Photography, Kylie, as our second shooter. The images truly speak for themselves. They are breathtaking.
Kaitlin Marie Photography
We chose the incredible Kaitlin Maree Photography to capture our day and was over the moon and so honoured to have the principle photographer from Just For Love Photography, Kylie, as our second shooter. The images truly speak for themselves. They are breathtaking.
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STYLING
Ivy & Bleu Events
Wildly Romantic, Fairy-tale, Modern, Whimsical & Chic were the words of the day!
Planning the feel and mood of our wedding was so much fun with the incredible talents of Mandy from Ivy and Bleu Events. Her aesthetic is so beautiful and fairy tale that it aligned perfectly with our romantic venue and whimsical feel. We went for a neutral palette of whites, creams, palest grey, clear acrylic and gold featuring a tiny touch of pink and lots and lots of greenery.
Ivy & Bleu Events
Wildly Romantic, Fairy-tale, Modern, Whimsical & Chic were the words of the day!
Planning the feel and mood of our wedding was so much fun with the incredible talents of Mandy from Ivy and Bleu Events. Her aesthetic is so beautiful and fairy tale that it aligned perfectly with our romantic venue and whimsical feel. We went for a neutral palette of whites, creams, palest grey, clear acrylic and gold featuring a tiny touch of pink and lots and lots of greenery.
Little Bliss Events Hire
We were very lucky to work with the amazing Little Bliss Events Hire who provided our lovely Tiffany chairs and gorgeous furniture for our cocktail hour styling. Including a pale blue vintage lounge that we used in our beautiful wedding portraits.
We were very lucky to work with the amazing Little Bliss Events Hire who provided our lovely Tiffany chairs and gorgeous furniture for our cocktail hour styling. Including a pale blue vintage lounge that we used in our beautiful wedding portraits.
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PLANNING
Ivy & Bleu On The Day Co-ordination
Having the gorgeous Mandi and her amazing team at Ivy & Bleu handling the on-the-day coordination made the day run without a hitch, except of course us getting hitched! It was such a pleasure to work with Mandi on so many facets of our wedding and having her and her team there throughout the day was worth its weight in gold. Everything was thought of and catered to from printing speeches to making last minute button holes!
Ivy & Bleu On The Day Co-ordination
Having the gorgeous Mandi and her amazing team at Ivy & Bleu handling the on-the-day coordination made the day run without a hitch, except of course us getting hitched! It was such a pleasure to work with Mandi on so many facets of our wedding and having her and her team there throughout the day was worth its weight in gold. Everything was thought of and catered to from printing speeches to making last minute button holes!
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BLOOMS
Ivy & Bleu Events
Ivy and Bleu also created our amazing wedding flowers and they were absolutely out of this world. The oversized and “wildly romantic” bridal bouquet was filled with lush blooms of white roses and beautiful white orchids as the focal point with a touch of palest pink. Finished with a hand-dyed silk ribbon that also tied in and featured in our invitations. The bridesmaids carried small posies in all white blossoms.
Ivy & Bleu Events
Ivy and Bleu also created our amazing wedding flowers and they were absolutely out of this world. The oversized and “wildly romantic” bridal bouquet was filled with lush blooms of white roses and beautiful white orchids as the focal point with a touch of palest pink. Finished with a hand-dyed silk ribbon that also tied in and featured in our invitations. The bridesmaids carried small posies in all white blossoms.
THE BRIDAL GOWNS & VEIL
Begitta – Bridal & Couture
& the Bride wore 5 Gowns….
Well actually, my one gown transformed into 5 different looks. Being a bridal designer I had no choice but to have each and every gown I had always dreamed of. My main gown was a beautiful lace gown featuring an exquisite heavily hand sewn appliqued bodice using a technique I learnt in Paris during my studies there. The neckline featured a subtle V-neck with a keyhole back, scalloped lace applique and exquisite bouffant sleeves. Featuring hidden corset, the bodice was slim cut to the thigh where a beautiful diagonal scalloped lace cascaded into sheer from the thigh down. The full ceremony gown featured a circle skirt with an overlay-skirted belt featuring an extravagant 7-foot train. With the belted skirt removed the skirt had a modest 2-foot train. The skirt then bustled into a skirt belt over my gown, revealing the beautiful sheer detail at the front. For our first dance the circle skirt was removed to reveal a tulle ball gown skirt featuring handwritten quotes in glitter script from a love letter Robbie wrote me the day we got engaged. Down to the final look of the gown without the skirts where I was free to dance the night away. The construction of the gown took over 150 hours with a considerable amount of hand sewing and so many intricate elements. It was truly my dream gown and one of my most favourite creations to date.
My veil was a 10-foot cathedral length veil embellished with peals around the crown. It was the perfect addition to an already exquisite gown with just the tiny bit of detailing around the top.
I am so excited to have recorded the creation of my glorious dream gown and will be sharing a HUGE post on it soon! So make sure you have signed up for our newsletter to be sure you don't miss it!
Begitta – Bridal & Couture
& the Bride wore 5 Gowns….
Well actually, my one gown transformed into 5 different looks. Being a bridal designer I had no choice but to have each and every gown I had always dreamed of. My main gown was a beautiful lace gown featuring an exquisite heavily hand sewn appliqued bodice using a technique I learnt in Paris during my studies there. The neckline featured a subtle V-neck with a keyhole back, scalloped lace applique and exquisite bouffant sleeves. Featuring hidden corset, the bodice was slim cut to the thigh where a beautiful diagonal scalloped lace cascaded into sheer from the thigh down. The full ceremony gown featured a circle skirt with an overlay-skirted belt featuring an extravagant 7-foot train. With the belted skirt removed the skirt had a modest 2-foot train. The skirt then bustled into a skirt belt over my gown, revealing the beautiful sheer detail at the front. For our first dance the circle skirt was removed to reveal a tulle ball gown skirt featuring handwritten quotes in glitter script from a love letter Robbie wrote me the day we got engaged. Down to the final look of the gown without the skirts where I was free to dance the night away. The construction of the gown took over 150 hours with a considerable amount of hand sewing and so many intricate elements. It was truly my dream gown and one of my most favourite creations to date.
My veil was a 10-foot cathedral length veil embellished with peals around the crown. It was the perfect addition to an already exquisite gown with just the tiny bit of detailing around the top.
I am so excited to have recorded the creation of my glorious dream gown and will be sharing a HUGE post on it soon! So make sure you have signed up for our newsletter to be sure you don't miss it!
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SUITS
Black Jacket Suiting
The handsome groom was dressed head to toe by the amazing Black Jacket Suiting. Choosing Robbie’s suit was a pretty important element for both of us, as I got my dream gown, he deserved his dream tux! Our dapper groomsmen wore all black suits from Black Jacket Suiting. Every detail was accounted for and the service was absolute perfection.
Black Jacket Suiting
The handsome groom was dressed head to toe by the amazing Black Jacket Suiting. Choosing Robbie’s suit was a pretty important element for both of us, as I got my dream gown, he deserved his dream tux! Our dapper groomsmen wore all black suits from Black Jacket Suiting. Every detail was accounted for and the service was absolute perfection.
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BRIDESMAIDS GOWNS
Begitta – Bridal & Couture
I always wished to create a bridesmaid collection that not only emulated my distinct feminine design aesthetic but also the individual wearer. I worked one-on-one with each of my bridesmaids to custom design their dress. Using beautiful hand sewn lace applique and dreamy soft tulle net in the palest grey, all gowns featured full soft flowing skirts and bodices in different styles.
Begitta – Bridal & Couture
I always wished to create a bridesmaid collection that not only emulated my distinct feminine design aesthetic but also the individual wearer. I worked one-on-one with each of my bridesmaids to custom design their dress. Using beautiful hand sewn lace applique and dreamy soft tulle net in the palest grey, all gowns featured full soft flowing skirts and bodices in different styles.
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HAIR AND MAKEUP
Bella Brides
To say Bella Brides work is amazing is a complete understatement. They effortlessly transform me from a pumpkin into a princess. For makeup we went with a fresh bridal look with a subtle winged eye and a bronzy pink smokiness. For the ceremony I wore my hair up in a large bun, we then let my hair out for the reception for more of a glamorous, softer feel.
Bella Brides
To say Bella Brides work is amazing is a complete understatement. They effortlessly transform me from a pumpkin into a princess. For makeup we went with a fresh bridal look with a subtle winged eye and a bronzy pink smokiness. For the ceremony I wore my hair up in a large bun, we then let my hair out for the reception for more of a glamorous, softer feel.
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MUSIC
String Quartet & DJ
For our ceremony we had the beautiful notes of a string quartet “Four Strings” who performed Cannon D whilst I walked down the aisle. They also serenaded our guests during the Cocktail Hour whilst we got our photographs taken. It was such a delight to hear the music playing from afar during our portraits. For our reception we hired a DJ to play our favourite tunes.
String Quartet & DJ
For our ceremony we had the beautiful notes of a string quartet “Four Strings” who performed Cannon D whilst I walked down the aisle. They also serenaded our guests during the Cocktail Hour whilst we got our photographs taken. It was such a delight to hear the music playing from afar during our portraits. For our reception we hired a DJ to play our favourite tunes.
FIRST DANCE
More Than Words by Amanda
We were incredibly lucky to have our Dance instructor Amanda from More Than Words take us on. We had two 6-hour lessons with this incredible woman and she turned us into a couple from Dancing with the Stars! Our first dance was a combination of the Waltz from the ballet Sleeping Beauty and then half way through the song my overskirt was undone by rob whilst I did a spin out of it to reveal my shimmering tulle ballgown underskirt featuring quotes from Robbie’s love letter to me written in script over the layers. The music then fizzled into Ed Sheerans “Thinking Out Loud”.
More Than Words by Amanda
We were incredibly lucky to have our Dance instructor Amanda from More Than Words take us on. We had two 6-hour lessons with this incredible woman and she turned us into a couple from Dancing with the Stars! Our first dance was a combination of the Waltz from the ballet Sleeping Beauty and then half way through the song my overskirt was undone by rob whilst I did a spin out of it to reveal my shimmering tulle ballgown underskirt featuring quotes from Robbie’s love letter to me written in script over the layers. The music then fizzled into Ed Sheerans “Thinking Out Loud”.
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DADDY DAUGHTER DANCE
A very precious moment was the daddy-daughter dance. My dad and I have always been very close and we have a song together about Winnie the Pooh - We danced and he sang the words to me whilst the entire crowd watched with eyes welling.
A very precious moment was the daddy-daughter dance. My dad and I have always been very close and we have a song together about Winnie the Pooh - We danced and he sang the words to me whilst the entire crowd watched with eyes welling.
CAKE
Arthur Clives Bakehouse
Created by local bakery, Arthur Clives Bakehouse, the cake was a 5-tiered, salted caramel mud cake encased in an all white icing. Featuring beautiful added blooms beautiful styled from Ivy & Bleu. It was the most delicious cake, I am soooo excited to reach our first wedding anniversary so I can have more from our saved top tier!
Arthur Clives Bakehouse
Created by local bakery, Arthur Clives Bakehouse, the cake was a 5-tiered, salted caramel mud cake encased in an all white icing. Featuring beautiful added blooms beautiful styled from Ivy & Bleu. It was the most delicious cake, I am soooo excited to reach our first wedding anniversary so I can have more from our saved top tier!
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THE INVITATIONS
D.I.Y
Our invitations were created using handmade deckled edge linen paper from India. Each invitation featured a vellum paper overlay with a snippet of Robbie’s love letter then layered and tied with a hand dyed silk ribbon and finished with a small sprig of dollar eucalyptus. Our envelopes were also vellum paper and were sealed with a personalized ‘R&B’ monogram wax seal that was used throughout the styling and stationery.
D.I.Y
Our invitations were created using handmade deckled edge linen paper from India. Each invitation featured a vellum paper overlay with a snippet of Robbie’s love letter then layered and tied with a hand dyed silk ribbon and finished with a small sprig of dollar eucalyptus. Our envelopes were also vellum paper and were sealed with a personalized ‘R&B’ monogram wax seal that was used throughout the styling and stationery.
PERSONALIZED DETAILS
Very Flamingo created a custom-made acrylic shoe box with gold cut letters with MRS HALL and our wedding date. It was the most beautiful addition and I now have the perfect box to keep all my treasures in.
On the day of the wedding I gifted Robbie, his dad and his grandpa a personalized handkerchief with a photo of Robs late Grandmother. A little touch to let them know she was watching down on this special day.
On our first date, Robbie and I spent the whole night talking till the restaurant closed, we walked the streets afterwards, gazing up at and talking about the stars. We both have said since that we felt we had met in another life. As a gift to Robbie on our wedding day I gave him a star chart of that night. It was such a beautiful reminder of what felt as though it was “Written in the stars”. Both this phrase and the most beautiful love letter Robbie wrote me the day we go engaged (before I knew we were getting engaged!) played a role in our day.
Upon arrival each of our guests at the Abbey were given little gift bags with details about the location, a map, timeline of the day to come and snacks, sweets, water bottles, toothbrushes and slippers to make their stay more comfortable. Each gift bag was printed with our R&B Monogram that added a special personalized touch with the added bonus of the bags being a fun memento of the weekend.
Very Flamingo created a custom-made acrylic shoe box with gold cut letters with MRS HALL and our wedding date. It was the most beautiful addition and I now have the perfect box to keep all my treasures in.
On the day of the wedding I gifted Robbie, his dad and his grandpa a personalized handkerchief with a photo of Robs late Grandmother. A little touch to let them know she was watching down on this special day.
On our first date, Robbie and I spent the whole night talking till the restaurant closed, we walked the streets afterwards, gazing up at and talking about the stars. We both have said since that we felt we had met in another life. As a gift to Robbie on our wedding day I gave him a star chart of that night. It was such a beautiful reminder of what felt as though it was “Written in the stars”. Both this phrase and the most beautiful love letter Robbie wrote me the day we go engaged (before I knew we were getting engaged!) played a role in our day.
Upon arrival each of our guests at the Abbey were given little gift bags with details about the location, a map, timeline of the day to come and snacks, sweets, water bottles, toothbrushes and slippers to make their stay more comfortable. Each gift bag was printed with our R&B Monogram that added a special personalized touch with the added bonus of the bags being a fun memento of the weekend.
VIDEOGRAPHY
Wrapped Up Media
Our memories in motion. We were so grateful to have the amazing Joel from Wrapped Up Media to capture our memories forever. Joel’s work is beyond beautiful. He has a way of making you feel as if he isn’t even there, capturing those heartfelt intimate moments without disturbing them. The quality of his films are Vogue material, we were so excited he was available to take our memory capturing to a new level!
Here is a little sneak peek of our amazing day...
Wrapped Up Media
Our memories in motion. We were so grateful to have the amazing Joel from Wrapped Up Media to capture our memories forever. Joel’s work is beyond beautiful. He has a way of making you feel as if he isn’t even there, capturing those heartfelt intimate moments without disturbing them. The quality of his films are Vogue material, we were so excited he was available to take our memory capturing to a new level!
Here is a little sneak peek of our amazing day...
VENDORS & CREDITS
PHOTOGRAPHY: Kaitlin Maree Photography
VIDEOGRAPHER: Wrapped Up Media
ON THE DAY CO-ORDINATION, STYLING & FLORALS: Ivy & Bleu Events
BRIDAL, BRIDESMAIDS & FLOWER GIRL GOWNS: Begitta –Bridal & Couture
HAIR AND MAKEUP: Bella Brides
CHAIR & LOUNGE HIRE: A Little Bliss Events
GROOM & GROOMSMEN SUITS: Black Jacket Suiting
CAKE: Arthur Clive Bakehouse
STRING QUARTET: Four Strings Quartet
CHURCH: St Marks Anglican Church
VENUE: Abbey of The Roses
PHOTOGRAPHY: Kaitlin Maree Photography
VIDEOGRAPHER: Wrapped Up Media
ON THE DAY CO-ORDINATION, STYLING & FLORALS: Ivy & Bleu Events
BRIDAL, BRIDESMAIDS & FLOWER GIRL GOWNS: Begitta –Bridal & Couture
HAIR AND MAKEUP: Bella Brides
CHAIR & LOUNGE HIRE: A Little Bliss Events
GROOM & GROOMSMEN SUITS: Black Jacket Suiting
CAKE: Arthur Clive Bakehouse
STRING QUARTET: Four Strings Quartet
CHURCH: St Marks Anglican Church
VENUE: Abbey of The Roses
Prepping and planning for the wedding so far has been pretty crazy.
Working as much as I do, I often let my health and diet take a backseat. When I have a high work load and a high stress load I definitely tend to put on the kilos.
That said because planning the wedding and running a business seems to have made me double the frazzled and I am really wanting to be feeling my absolute best before THE BIG DAY so I’ve taken charge to make sure I’m on the right path.
THE DAILY WALK
Walking daily gets you up and moving. A fasted walk (not eating before) is the best way to get your body burning fats. It’s also a great way to get your blood flowing, your digestion moving and your heart rate up.
Walking is not only great for physical fitness it’s also amazing for meditation and reflection. Walking without headphones and just taking the time for yourself to open yourself up is a really beautiful way to start your day.
If quiet isn’t your thing or you’re wanting to have a productive walk (sometimes you just have to double down on that productivity!) I have a huge love of learning and I love listening to podcasts whilst walking. A few of my favs are The Toni Robbins Podcast, The Goal Digger - Jenna Kutcher, anything Amy Porterfield and The High Low.
Working as much as I do, I often let my health and diet take a backseat. When I have a high work load and a high stress load I definitely tend to put on the kilos.
That said because planning the wedding and running a business seems to have made me double the frazzled and I am really wanting to be feeling my absolute best before THE BIG DAY so I’ve taken charge to make sure I’m on the right path.
THE DAILY WALK
Walking daily gets you up and moving. A fasted walk (not eating before) is the best way to get your body burning fats. It’s also a great way to get your blood flowing, your digestion moving and your heart rate up.
Walking is not only great for physical fitness it’s also amazing for meditation and reflection. Walking without headphones and just taking the time for yourself to open yourself up is a really beautiful way to start your day.
If quiet isn’t your thing or you’re wanting to have a productive walk (sometimes you just have to double down on that productivity!) I have a huge love of learning and I love listening to podcasts whilst walking. A few of my favs are The Toni Robbins Podcast, The Goal Digger - Jenna Kutcher, anything Amy Porterfield and The High Low.
NUTRITION
For the last 5 or so years I have predominately aimed for a “Clean Eating” diet. Basically put a clean eating diet has little to no processed foods. Pretty much everything on your shopping list should come from the fruit market and butcher. I still visit Coles or Woollies for anything cleaning/hygiene/stuff related and I buy canned items but mostly just wholefoods and fresh produce.
For the past 3+ years I have exercised ultimate productivity by doing Meal-Prep every fortnight. Its super cost efficient and means that when I’m working long hours I am still ensuring I am eating enough. Which I most definitely struggle with the whole “Enough”. My body tends to lean towards the fight or flight mode on the regular. With the high pressure of deadlines and being a workaholic this pushes my cortisol up (stress hormone) and this tends to show around the waistline! My body requires a lot of fuel and when I don’t give it enough my body grasps and holds tight to everything I put in it. When I fuel my body with all the right foods and nutrition the KG’s seem to just melt away – I’m still overcoming the whole thought that more food equals lose weight, but I’m getting there - and my energy levels are amazing. So food prepping allows me to make sure I’m getting everything I need to be the best me.
Enter the most amazing gift of god – Five Point Four Meals!
With the cost I was putting down for groceries plus the time it takes to cook and box everything (which all ended up tasting rather bland anyway!) there was another way more efficient (Win!) way to fuel my #Girlboss days and get me to #BabetownBod that I dream of. Instead of slaving at the kitchen once a fortnight to make my ideal meals for the week I did some research and found this amazing food service. The meals are clean (Win!), there is so much variation and the foods are so delicious!
My mouth literally waters when I smell these meals in the microwave and the convenience alone is the biggest win of all. Delivered to my door weekly and so delish! #BabetownBod here I come!
FITNESS – Personal Training
My amazing partner is a Personal Trainer and there are some awesome benefits of that but I truly wanted to knuckle down and be pushed and commited to working my hardest to look fab for the big day, so I called THE BEST trainers I know to get me to the alter! B2N – Before 2 Now who offer 3 month “Bridal Transformations” in a 12 week bootcamp course. I commenced a 12 week challenge 3 months out from the wedding and with only 3 weeks to go I am feeling super fit and healthy. I am excited to double down and get these next 3 weeks my all and be looking super hawt in my gown!
I do find that with so much going on my fitness tends to go to the back of my mind and the bottom of my (never ending) To-Do List. These girls have kept me accountable every step of the way with regular check ins on my walks and food as well as just offering lots of amazing knowledge, guidance and an amazing community of women to work out with in the group fitness sessions too.
CHECK OUT B2N HERE
MIND & SOUL
One of my biggest saviours for my never-ending running mind is Yoga! I absolutely love taking the time to zone out and really feel what my body is saying. It also helps I have a major girl crush on my teacher Gee. I followed Gee from a Gym she use to teach at in Burleigh (Gold Coast) to her private classes on Park Ave. She has totally transformed my life and her love and passion for yoga makes me love it even more, the moment I step into practice I instantly feel at ease. Gee is my yoga-unicorn! I would love to see you in a class! You can check out her class times via her insta HERE
With only 3 weeks left till the wedding I really want to focus on training, feeling strong, fit and healthy. Continuing to look after myself physically and mentally during these last few months of wedding planning is high on my priority list! Cant wait to share all my results!
I used to be a huge lover of prepping my meals ahead of time. Robbie, My Fiancé, and I would spend Sundays making a fortnights worth of meals (or in his case a months worth!). It would be great to know we had it all ready and set out and with conflicting schedules it worked well for us. I found the only way to make sure I ate enough thought-out the day with a busy schedule was to prep everything.
That was until I discovered 5point4 Meals! Their incredible meals are so tasty and by qualified chefs. The variation in the meal flavors and meats (and their vego options) means that I can just heat it and run but not feel like im on the hamster wheel of chicken breast and brocolli! No meal prep! Hooray! Being a workaholic these meals are amazingly convenient! I’m totally guilty of popping it in the microwave whilst posting on socials on my phone for 4 minutes and then returning to my desk to keep working whilst eating. I’ve really tried to take note of eating mindfully to avoid overeating in one sitting, which I do tend to do because I skip or forget meals when I am in a hurry or working on huge projects. But thankfully with these delish meals they are portion sized so even if I gulp it down (ooops!) to quickly I know that I haven’t eaten to much.
That was until I discovered 5point4 Meals! Their incredible meals are so tasty and by qualified chefs. The variation in the meal flavors and meats (and their vego options) means that I can just heat it and run but not feel like im on the hamster wheel of chicken breast and brocolli! No meal prep! Hooray! Being a workaholic these meals are amazingly convenient! I’m totally guilty of popping it in the microwave whilst posting on socials on my phone for 4 minutes and then returning to my desk to keep working whilst eating. I’ve really tried to take note of eating mindfully to avoid overeating in one sitting, which I do tend to do because I skip or forget meals when I am in a hurry or working on huge projects. But thankfully with these delish meals they are portion sized so even if I gulp it down (ooops!) to quickly I know that I haven’t eaten to much.
An honest review – I tried FivePointFour meals some time ago when they first started and loved the convenience of just ordering and forgetting about it (no big grocery shops!) but I wasn’t “in love” with the taste. The meals were good but I found myself craving other foods. Then I read somewhere a little while ago they had changed their menu and kitchen and I was curious to see if there was a difference. So I ordered some just to try whilst working on the Miss Universe National Costume (so I knew I would have food available when cooking was way to much extra work!). And since getting back on the bandwagon I have to say they were good before but they are totally game changing now! The flavours and meal variation is amazing and I finish a meal feeling full but also totally content. I know I’m getting the perfect amount of protein and veg. I’m completely addicted and so excited because I feel like I have more energy with the regular fuel (without the fuss!) and also am slimming down which, with a wedding coming up, I am pretty thrilled about!! I’m going to stick to a 12 week challenge to optimize my productivity and get going on my health and fitness pre-wedding! Over the last 3 weeks eating 5point4 I have lost 2kg! How awesome is that! Hot wedding bod here I come!
I am super excited because I had a chat to the awesome team at Five Point Four and they have given me a discount code for all the Utterly Engaged Readers – Just use the code “BEGITTA” for $30 off your first box!
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What an incredible start to the year it has been,
With 2017 was such an incredibly busy year; from working with all of my gorgeous bridal clients to creating 35 gowns for #TheMissUniverseProject and the National Costume for the gorgeous Miss Universe Australia, Olivia Rogers. Touring to different TV studios to traveling to the corners of the globe and getting engaged in beautiful Melbourne. 2018 hasn’t been much different in the way of craziness and it doesn’t seem to be slowing down any time soon!
On the wedding front, my beautiful man, Robbie and I have been getting deep into the wedding planning game. We have toured the country side for venues from Byron Bay to Brisbane and inland as far as Warwick and Alstonville.
I am so excited to be taking this journey with such a wonderful person. Knowing full well that Weddings are something that I live for he has been absolutely incredible and supportive whilst we’ve toured all over the place to find the foot that fits the slipper. We have the vision, we just need the right place!
I have a very specific image for what I dream our wedding will look like and piecing together the puzzle has been no easy feat. We have met some absolutely beautiful people along the way and seen venues that make the heart sing.
Like so many girls and women before me, I have always pictured of the day I would be swept up in a beautiful romance with my dream prince and my perfect fairy-tale. And now here I am living the modern day reality of that fairytale. Lets be honest its not always whistling with songbirds and fairy godmothers but it’s pretty darn close!
I have pictures in my head the hold the scenes to the perfect day. Having spent a lot of my childhood travelling through Europe, I have always had a true love affair with the romance of grand estates, beautiful old Chateau’s and fine detailing of French décor. I love seeing buildings so old and soaked in history that they have begun to decay and moss over with endless vines scaling up walls, towers and turrets. I am a true romantic deep into my soul and love to be filled with the nostalgia of the happy places I have been blessed to visit particularly memories aboard trains through Switzerland and France. Admiring the snow covered alps as the train treks through the mountains, past sprawling vineyards, magnificent lakes, charming little houses and grand mansions. Eating the freshest baguettes with the cheese from the quaint little village where we stopped to visit our close family friends. It was all an adventurous fairy-tale to a petite Begitta, one that I was lucky enough to live over and over again each Winter. It’s not hard to see how romanticism grew and flourished within me and I have made it my life to create those Cinderella moments for my beautiful brides and now I am soon to truly have my own such moment!!
My favourite fairy-tale romance is Cinderella. With Princes and Paupers, grand balls, the guests, hopefully sans ugly stepsisters! and of course… The Gown! But like all beautiful tales the ball must take place in a castle. Or at least a version of my ‘dream wedding chateau’. So the story begins with my Prince and I journeying through the country side in search of my OUR dream venue!
We’ve searched high and low for a venue we absolutely adore, our guiding requirements were:
So let me show you the beautiful places we discovered....
With 2017 was such an incredibly busy year; from working with all of my gorgeous bridal clients to creating 35 gowns for #TheMissUniverseProject and the National Costume for the gorgeous Miss Universe Australia, Olivia Rogers. Touring to different TV studios to traveling to the corners of the globe and getting engaged in beautiful Melbourne. 2018 hasn’t been much different in the way of craziness and it doesn’t seem to be slowing down any time soon!
On the wedding front, my beautiful man, Robbie and I have been getting deep into the wedding planning game. We have toured the country side for venues from Byron Bay to Brisbane and inland as far as Warwick and Alstonville.
I am so excited to be taking this journey with such a wonderful person. Knowing full well that Weddings are something that I live for he has been absolutely incredible and supportive whilst we’ve toured all over the place to find the foot that fits the slipper. We have the vision, we just need the right place!
I have a very specific image for what I dream our wedding will look like and piecing together the puzzle has been no easy feat. We have met some absolutely beautiful people along the way and seen venues that make the heart sing.
Like so many girls and women before me, I have always pictured of the day I would be swept up in a beautiful romance with my dream prince and my perfect fairy-tale. And now here I am living the modern day reality of that fairytale. Lets be honest its not always whistling with songbirds and fairy godmothers but it’s pretty darn close!
I have pictures in my head the hold the scenes to the perfect day. Having spent a lot of my childhood travelling through Europe, I have always had a true love affair with the romance of grand estates, beautiful old Chateau’s and fine detailing of French décor. I love seeing buildings so old and soaked in history that they have begun to decay and moss over with endless vines scaling up walls, towers and turrets. I am a true romantic deep into my soul and love to be filled with the nostalgia of the happy places I have been blessed to visit particularly memories aboard trains through Switzerland and France. Admiring the snow covered alps as the train treks through the mountains, past sprawling vineyards, magnificent lakes, charming little houses and grand mansions. Eating the freshest baguettes with the cheese from the quaint little village where we stopped to visit our close family friends. It was all an adventurous fairy-tale to a petite Begitta, one that I was lucky enough to live over and over again each Winter. It’s not hard to see how romanticism grew and flourished within me and I have made it my life to create those Cinderella moments for my beautiful brides and now I am soon to truly have my own such moment!!
My favourite fairy-tale romance is Cinderella. With Princes and Paupers, grand balls, the guests, hopefully sans ugly stepsisters! and of course… The Gown! But like all beautiful tales the ball must take place in a castle. Or at least a version of my ‘dream wedding chateau’. So the story begins with my Prince and I journeying through the country side in search of my OUR dream venue!
We’ve searched high and low for a venue we absolutely adore, our guiding requirements were:
- South East Queensland or Northern NSW
- Room for 50-100 people
- Romantic in feel and Black-Tie worthy
- Beautiful surroundings for photographs
- Space to be married- Chapel on property or church near property
So let me show you the beautiful places we discovered....
Customs House – Brisbane CBD
A heritage listed landmark of the beautiful CBD. Set riverside just near the Story Bridge, I would always drive past this stunning building almost every day when I lived in Brisbane and think to myself “That’s where I want to have my wedding”. Having been a part of a magnificent shoot here many years ago featuring our gowns, I was so excited to finally have the chance to enter the building and see the interior- it certainly did not disappoint. We loved the feel and the high ceilings, exquisite architecture and the delectable menu.
A heritage listed landmark of the beautiful CBD. Set riverside just near the Story Bridge, I would always drive past this stunning building almost every day when I lived in Brisbane and think to myself “That’s where I want to have my wedding”. Having been a part of a magnificent shoot here many years ago featuring our gowns, I was so excited to finally have the chance to enter the building and see the interior- it certainly did not disappoint. We loved the feel and the high ceilings, exquisite architecture and the delectable menu.
Evergreen Garden Venue – Gold Coast, QLD
We were lucky enough to have our Engagement Photos taken at this dreamy location. Every nook of this lush venue provides the backdrop to a beautiful photo opportunity. Catering for up to 60 people Evergreen is the perfect venue for an intimate wedding with a fairy-tale essence! Featuring perfectly manicured grounds, beautiful sandstone details, a stunning garden staircase and statuesque front gate, the owners have created an absolute Eden here. With options to have a beautiful silk-lined marquee to hold your reception within, you could not find a dreamier venue for your nuptials!
We were lucky enough to have our Engagement Photos taken at this dreamy location. Every nook of this lush venue provides the backdrop to a beautiful photo opportunity. Catering for up to 60 people Evergreen is the perfect venue for an intimate wedding with a fairy-tale essence! Featuring perfectly manicured grounds, beautiful sandstone details, a stunning garden staircase and statuesque front gate, the owners have created an absolute Eden here. With options to have a beautiful silk-lined marquee to hold your reception within, you could not find a dreamier venue for your nuptials!
Summergrove Estate – Northern NSW Hinterland
A truly breathtaking venue, think The Sound of Music with rolling hills and endless views beyond belief. This property offers so many options for both ceremony and reception with their beautiful chapel, picturesque gardens and their new purpose built barn. The chapel on the grounds is just to-die-for and the huge white wedding barn is custom built to offer any couples that Pinterest worthy wedding they have always dreamed of!
It’s the place of daydreams and the perfect estate to host an elegant wedding with a little bit of ‘relaxed country feel’.
A truly breathtaking venue, think The Sound of Music with rolling hills and endless views beyond belief. This property offers so many options for both ceremony and reception with their beautiful chapel, picturesque gardens and their new purpose built barn. The chapel on the grounds is just to-die-for and the huge white wedding barn is custom built to offer any couples that Pinterest worthy wedding they have always dreamed of!
It’s the place of daydreams and the perfect estate to host an elegant wedding with a little bit of ‘relaxed country feel’.
ABOVE IMAGE CREDITS: THE ATELIER
The Abbey of the Roses – Warwick, QLD
The history and grandeur of this exquisite venue is beyond compare. Robbie and I took a road trip out to see the stunning Abbey in all her beauty. What I like to call a “semi-destination” wedding venue, her beauty is enough to rival the most gorgeous French Chateau. We fell absolutely in love with the charm and grace of such an amazing building, with the options to have your ceremony held in the stunning gardens or in the on site chapel. Additionally hosting a number of guests in their B&B Style accommodation that feature beautiful antiques and lush bathrobes (I’m a sucker for those details!).
It’s the perfect venue for an exquisite wedding and the perfect ‘Happily Ever After’!
The history and grandeur of this exquisite venue is beyond compare. Robbie and I took a road trip out to see the stunning Abbey in all her beauty. What I like to call a “semi-destination” wedding venue, her beauty is enough to rival the most gorgeous French Chateau. We fell absolutely in love with the charm and grace of such an amazing building, with the options to have your ceremony held in the stunning gardens or in the on site chapel. Additionally hosting a number of guests in their B&B Style accommodation that feature beautiful antiques and lush bathrobes (I’m a sucker for those details!).
It’s the perfect venue for an exquisite wedding and the perfect ‘Happily Ever After’!
ABOVE IMAGE CREDITS: THE ATELIER
University of Queensland – St Lucia, QLD
UQ has endless amazing options of places and spaces to host your ceremony, reception and cocktail hour. With additional options to have a marquee put up on the grounds meaning you can tailor a package to suit your budget. The ladies at Schonell Events were so accommodating. The surrounding gardens, ponds and buildings really set the scene for your guests and The Great Court is absolutely awe-inspiring with its tall pillars and green lawns.
It’s the perfect backdrop for those stunning gown shots and loved up candids with your man in his Tux.
UQ has endless amazing options of places and spaces to host your ceremony, reception and cocktail hour. With additional options to have a marquee put up on the grounds meaning you can tailor a package to suit your budget. The ladies at Schonell Events were so accommodating. The surrounding gardens, ponds and buildings really set the scene for your guests and The Great Court is absolutely awe-inspiring with its tall pillars and green lawns.
It’s the perfect backdrop for those stunning gown shots and loved up candids with your man in his Tux.
Deux Belettes – Dalwood, Northern NSW
Set out in beautiful Alstonville, Northern NSW, fairy-tales like Cinderella certainly took place in places like Deux Belettes. The owners have constructed the building over the last 30+ years in a labour of love for all things French. It is a divine establishment with no inch untouched by exquisite detail. When we went to view this venue we just fell in love, boasting gorgeous living spaces with accommodation, sweeping lawns and of course the most picturesque French interior and exterior.
It's not hard to picture the fairytale moments in a place so surreal!
Set out in beautiful Alstonville, Northern NSW, fairy-tales like Cinderella certainly took place in places like Deux Belettes. The owners have constructed the building over the last 30+ years in a labour of love for all things French. It is a divine establishment with no inch untouched by exquisite detail. When we went to view this venue we just fell in love, boasting gorgeous living spaces with accommodation, sweeping lawns and of course the most picturesque French interior and exterior.
It's not hard to picture the fairytale moments in a place so surreal!
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ABOVE IMAGE CREDITS: THE ATELIER
Old Government House – Brisbane CBD
The Old Government House building is set on the grounds of the stunning Queensland University of Technology and adjoining the Brisbane Botanical Gardens. This 150-year-old building sets the tone for a chic, elegant, endlessly scenic wedding. With options to have banquet dining within the house itself or just next door and up amongst the clouds at Room Three Sixty with panoramic views of the beautiful Brisbane city skyline. We just loved the stately old world feel of this striking building.
The perfect backdrop for an intimate wedding with a modern city feel.
The Old Government House building is set on the grounds of the stunning Queensland University of Technology and adjoining the Brisbane Botanical Gardens. This 150-year-old building sets the tone for a chic, elegant, endlessly scenic wedding. With options to have banquet dining within the house itself or just next door and up amongst the clouds at Room Three Sixty with panoramic views of the beautiful Brisbane city skyline. We just loved the stately old world feel of this striking building.
The perfect backdrop for an intimate wedding with a modern city feel.
I am bursting with excitement! We’ve set a date and its so so close!
We cannot wait to share with you which one we have picked! You may figure it out before the big day but we’re going to keep you hanging!
We cannot wait to share with you which one we have picked! You may figure it out before the big day but we’re going to keep you hanging!
WOW What a night! We had the best time and it was just so amazing to catch up with all our friends and family to celebrate this huge milestone in our story.
The planning of the engagement party was so exciting. It’s a lot less serious than wedding planning and you get to have a little bit more fun with the theming and party aspect. Our main goal was to have a lot of fun and plenty of delish food and cocktails! So here is a little bit about how it allll came together!
The planning of the engagement party was so exciting. It’s a lot less serious than wedding planning and you get to have a little bit more fun with the theming and party aspect. Our main goal was to have a lot of fun and plenty of delish food and cocktails! So here is a little bit about how it allll came together!
THE INSPIRATION
We chose to have a theme totally left field from what our wedding will be (a very traditional style wedding), something fun with a holiday, Hamptons feel. When we knew the look we wanted we knew the venue has to be QT HOTEL GOLD COAST in Surfers Paradise. It’s quirky, fun and super luxe. We decided on a WHITE PARTY with touch of tropical theme. With lots of white, greenery, gold and champagne! This was our moodboard with some of our inspo...
We chose to have a theme totally left field from what our wedding will be (a very traditional style wedding), something fun with a holiday, Hamptons feel. When we knew the look we wanted we knew the venue has to be QT HOTEL GOLD COAST in Surfers Paradise. It’s quirky, fun and super luxe. We decided on a WHITE PARTY with touch of tropical theme. With lots of white, greenery, gold and champagne! This was our moodboard with some of our inspo...
THE INVITATION
We decided on a digital invitation to save on postage and printing and also its a lot quicker to get them out. I began by sketching and painting the leaves I wanted to feature. Then using photoshop I scanned them in and cutaway the backgrounds. I then set it out how I wanted with the wording and PRESTO! The invite was done! I made a few modifications as I realized extra info was needed and also created an extra “Yay” graphic for the landing page once everyone RSVP’d!
Want to DIY an invite? Try CANVA or Adobe Photoshop if you're game!
We decided on a digital invitation to save on postage and printing and also its a lot quicker to get them out. I began by sketching and painting the leaves I wanted to feature. Then using photoshop I scanned them in and cutaway the backgrounds. I then set it out how I wanted with the wording and PRESTO! The invite was done! I made a few modifications as I realized extra info was needed and also created an extra “Yay” graphic for the landing page once everyone RSVP’d!
Want to DIY an invite? Try CANVA or Adobe Photoshop if you're game!
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THE VENUE
From the moment we ventured to QT GOLD COAST for our first Go-See we were in love! The amazing feel of QT is just the best. Its so quirky with its 1950’s pin-up girls and beachy-relaxed feel and just so chic in all its details. “The Lawn” at the Stingray Bar was the absolute perfect space for the theme, with its open yet intimate private space and its green carpeting and huge windows.
Emailing, planning and finalizing details was a total breeze when working with event coordinator Aimee. She made the process so easy and streamlined and the packages available are really very affordable and so many options to cover all kinds of budgets. We highly recommend you check them out for your next soiree!
From the moment we ventured to QT GOLD COAST for our first Go-See we were in love! The amazing feel of QT is just the best. Its so quirky with its 1950’s pin-up girls and beachy-relaxed feel and just so chic in all its details. “The Lawn” at the Stingray Bar was the absolute perfect space for the theme, with its open yet intimate private space and its green carpeting and huge windows.
Emailing, planning and finalizing details was a total breeze when working with event coordinator Aimee. She made the process so easy and streamlined and the packages available are really very affordable and so many options to cover all kinds of budgets. We highly recommend you check them out for your next soiree!
More pics from QT to show off this amazing spot...
THE DRESS
(and Bow Tie!)
The theme of the evening was WHITE! Hamptons style white outfits and of course the Bride & Groom to be can shuck the theme and REALLY stand out so I went for gold! Literally GOLD!
My dress was created from one of the gorgeous new fabrics in my Mermaidia collection. A geometric style sequin that is just amazing. I opted for a strapless mini-dress with epically large off-the-shoulder bell sleeves. It was a hit and so much fun to wear. Want a custom made dress? head to Begitta -Bridal & Couture
(and Bow Tie!)
The theme of the evening was WHITE! Hamptons style white outfits and of course the Bride & Groom to be can shuck the theme and REALLY stand out so I went for gold! Literally GOLD!
My dress was created from one of the gorgeous new fabrics in my Mermaidia collection. A geometric style sequin that is just amazing. I opted for a strapless mini-dress with epically large off-the-shoulder bell sleeves. It was a hit and so much fun to wear. Want a custom made dress? head to Begitta -Bridal & Couture
And of course I created a cute little matching bow-tie for Rob. He decided to keep up the Hamptons theme with a pair of chinos and a navy dinner jacket and white shirt. He looked incredible!
THE MAKEUP
I knew as soon as we had a date I would need to lock in the amazing team at BELLA BRIDES. They always make me look flawless and I just love their incredible work.
We opted for a smokey dark eye, flawless skin and lots of highlighter to challenge my golden dress.
They totally nailed it, I knew they would, they always make me feel a million dollars!
(They even pinned my curls up so I could go help set up the venue and my hair would be perfect to let down just before start time!)
I knew as soon as we had a date I would need to lock in the amazing team at BELLA BRIDES. They always make me look flawless and I just love their incredible work.
We opted for a smokey dark eye, flawless skin and lots of highlighter to challenge my golden dress.
They totally nailed it, I knew they would, they always make me feel a million dollars!
(They even pinned my curls up so I could go help set up the venue and my hair would be perfect to let down just before start time!)
THE NEON
We wanted the night to be a big party and lots of fun and in keeping with the Engagement theme we wanted something to tie it all together. I absolutely loved the “Till Death Do Us Party” Sign from NEON REPUBLIC but they only had it in red which I loved but it didn’t feel quite right. I then spoke to the lovely Jess at N.R and she said they were getting it in pink! PINK!!!! The perfect colour (my favourite!) that would stand out from all the green and white! We locked it in with Jess ASAP and it was totally the highlight (pun intended!)
We wanted the night to be a big party and lots of fun and in keeping with the Engagement theme we wanted something to tie it all together. I absolutely loved the “Till Death Do Us Party” Sign from NEON REPUBLIC but they only had it in red which I loved but it didn’t feel quite right. I then spoke to the lovely Jess at N.R and she said they were getting it in pink! PINK!!!! The perfect colour (my favourite!) that would stand out from all the green and white! We locked it in with Jess ASAP and it was totally the highlight (pun intended!)
STYLING & HIRE
I have been ogling at the amazing NEXT EVENT HIRE range for so long, their amazing arbours and funky backdrops and donut walls are so amazing. I was so excited to have the opportunity to create something amazing with a few of their pieces. We opted for the side-board style donut wall which came already assembled with the perfect tropical theme and utilized their amazing wire grid backdrop to hold our neon and create a backdrop for the bar.
The backdrop was created by wiring greenery we sourced from our house in a decorative border along the top and edge of the grid wall. I absolutely loved the final look it worked so well with our marquee R & B Lights.
We created an amazing DIY Balloon Arbour for as our guests walked in which really set the mood and drew the eye! You could’t miss us! I would love to do a little blog on how it all came together (Perhaps after the wedding!!)
I’ve also been totally crushing on clear acrylic for the last year (it might make an appreance at the big day I’m loving it so much!) so we also had a fab clear plinth from Next Event Hire and an AMAZING gold cake stand to hold our cake. To tie in with the large balloon arbour we added some balloons and greenery inside the plinth to tie it all together! It looked so cool!
I have been ogling at the amazing NEXT EVENT HIRE range for so long, their amazing arbours and funky backdrops and donut walls are so amazing. I was so excited to have the opportunity to create something amazing with a few of their pieces. We opted for the side-board style donut wall which came already assembled with the perfect tropical theme and utilized their amazing wire grid backdrop to hold our neon and create a backdrop for the bar.
The backdrop was created by wiring greenery we sourced from our house in a decorative border along the top and edge of the grid wall. I absolutely loved the final look it worked so well with our marquee R & B Lights.
We created an amazing DIY Balloon Arbour for as our guests walked in which really set the mood and drew the eye! You could’t miss us! I would love to do a little blog on how it all came together (Perhaps after the wedding!!)
I’ve also been totally crushing on clear acrylic for the last year (it might make an appreance at the big day I’m loving it so much!) so we also had a fab clear plinth from Next Event Hire and an AMAZING gold cake stand to hold our cake. To tie in with the large balloon arbour we added some balloons and greenery inside the plinth to tie it all together! It looked so cool!
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We're so grateful to all our friends and family for coming along to support our love. And to all our amazing vendors who helped make the night the most amazing party!
// VENUE: QT HOTEL - Gold Coast / PROP/STYLE HIRE: Next Event Hire / NEON SIGN: Neon Republic /HAIR AND MAKEUP: Bella Brides (www.bellabrides.com.au) / DRESS: Custom Begitta -Bridal & Couture //
This incredibly gorgeous young girl has been through a tough time. A 16-year-old high school student and an incredibly talented artistic skater and a recently-diagnosed cancer sufferer. She and her family have gone through so much recently so together with an incredible team we pulled off a beautiful photo-shoot in a "Make a Wish" style project!
Please get behind this gorgeous young girl and support her and her family to KICK CANCER'S BUTT!!! Check out her Go-Fund-Me:
https://www.gofundme.com/jenny-schneiders-medical-fund
& a heartfelt and love-filled thank you to the incredible team who came together to make this little Dream Come True:::
Photography Erin Smith Photography // Hair and makeup Dead Gorgeous - Hair & Makeup Styling // #DreamMakersProject
and of course the amazing businesses who have kindly contributed to our gift hamper
GC MAG, Endota Day Spa Broadbeach, Finding Your Peace, The Atelier, Kylie's Professional
Please get behind this gorgeous young girl and support her and her family to KICK CANCER'S BUTT!!! Check out her Go-Fund-Me:
https://www.gofundme.com/jenny-schneiders-medical-fund
& a heartfelt and love-filled thank you to the incredible team who came together to make this little Dream Come True:::
Photography Erin Smith Photography // Hair and makeup Dead Gorgeous - Hair & Makeup Styling // #DreamMakersProject
and of course the amazing businesses who have kindly contributed to our gift hamper
GC MAG, Endota Day Spa Broadbeach, Finding Your Peace, The Atelier, Kylie's Professional
This beautiful girl, Jenny, was diagnosed with a rare brain tumor a diffuse anaplastic astrocytoma in January, with little hope of recovery. When we were approached by a family friend to help make a little wish of Jenny’s come true we were excited to put together an amazing team of women to create a magical photoshoot and make Jenny feel like a princess for a day! The results are absolutely breathtaking....
THE PLANNING BEGINS...
Woohoo! Engaged! POP THE CHAMPAGNE!!!
You're going to need it!
To say wedding planning is overwhelming is an absolute understatement!
I have barely begun the planning and already I feel as though I am swimming in a very very deep sea whilst wearing one of those rather large 80’s bouffant wedding dresses weighing me down and dragging me under. Basically a nightmare! But the absolute sheer excitement keeps me from being swallowed whole by this water filled meringue. And so, here I am, ready to take on this journey armed with some of the industries most incredible vendors I am (figuratively) going to Bippity-Boppity-Boo this nightmare-drowning-meringue-scenario into one of the most incredible planning experiences EVER and I’m going to share it all with you!
So where to start?
I keep thinking this in my head over and over, but I know I already have completed the first task. I’ve sat down with my sweet love and Feyoncé to have “The Talk”. Not about the birds and the bees this is BIGGER than that (Maybe?!)! This is the real deal, cut-the-B-S-cake talk, the
“What will OUR wedding look like” talk.
We all know that I’m the kind of girl who has dreamed of this day since I was old enough to dress myself (which was kindergarten FYI, in tutu’s and my mums stilettos). But at the end of the day this wedding is about marrying the man of my dreams, my best friend, wingman, exit buddy and all that goes along with that. Thus we begin with The Talk. What does he envision? What does he hope for? What seems like a realistic amount to spend? Obviously there will be plenty more questions and “Talks” along the way but this will help you get on the same page and not have you dreaming of The Royal Procession when we was thinking more of an intimate soiree.
I have attached a little Feyoncé Q & A HERE for you to download with a few of the important questions to help you on your way.
Ok, so I will be the first to admit I have had a secret wedding Pinterest board for years before I got engaged, in fact years before I was in a relationship! Working in the wedding industry means I see a lot but I’ve always had a pretty clear idea of what I truly loved. But of course there are always a few questionable ideas that end up in the mix so the first thing to do is to go through and delete the Marabou Feather Boa you thought you would definitely, without a doubt, wear on your big day and get back to basics!
So Robbie and I sat down to chat about what we envision and I showed him my most secret board and my hopes and dreams for this magical day. I am a lover of surprises and a little bit protective of my ideas so he is the only other person on the planet who I have let see it so far! Eeek! In these preliminary stages you really need to think about the main factors that need to be organized and the ideas of what it will all look and feel like. We have both agreed we would love a church or chapel wedding and we both want something beautiful and something that represents us and who we are. We are both romantics at heart so I think we both have a similar vision for what will be the best day of our lives! There is so much to consider so we sat down and went through the following things...
THEME, IDEAS, THOUGHTS and INSPIRATION
Start considering what you want your wedding to look, feel and be like. If you want it to be Rustic or Beachy or Bohemian or all three!
To get an idea of the different style I love and what Rob loves too. The easiest thing to do was create Pinterest Boards for each element of the wedding with pictures of things that we both like and we can share visually what we are loving. You can see some of our UTTERLY ENGAGED pins and boards HERE! A few Highlight Boards so far:
UTTERLY ENGAGED // Engagement Announcement Inspo
- Inspiration on announcing your engagement
UTTERLY ENGAGED // We're engaged!
-A few of our highlights from the best day of my life (to date!)
UTTERLY ENGAGED // Wedding Invitations
-A little bit of Inspo of the invitations I am currently crushing on!
UTTERLY ENGAGED // Engagement Party Inspo
- The beginnings of the inspiration for our Engagement Party
Above Images: We Are Twine
TIMELINE
Grab yourself a diary/planner/date book that you can write down all your dates, times, meetings, inspiration and ideas in.
I am currently working with my own Kiki-K planner using custom made stickers and inserts to highlight all the necessary items and to-dos. I also have enlisted the help and guidelines of “Countdown to Wife Life” it has some amazing tips, tricks and a great timeline of what to do when. You can buy one from Ivory Haus.
Additionally I am using an Excel spreadsheet to keep EVERYTHING on from guest list to vendor details. I am so excited to share this with you in an upcoming blog. I feel as though in this amazing computer age that you really need both digital and hardcopy planning assistance and I have created the perfect way to have them both work hand in hand! (Stay Tuned!) I have however put together an awesome list of TO-DO's starting from 12 Months all the way to post wedding! You can find it and a whole lot of other downloads in our ATELIER BRIDES section (see the end of this post to sign up!)
Grab yourself a diary/planner/date book that you can write down all your dates, times, meetings, inspiration and ideas in.
I am currently working with my own Kiki-K planner using custom made stickers and inserts to highlight all the necessary items and to-dos. I also have enlisted the help and guidelines of “Countdown to Wife Life” it has some amazing tips, tricks and a great timeline of what to do when. You can buy one from Ivory Haus.
Additionally I am using an Excel spreadsheet to keep EVERYTHING on from guest list to vendor details. I am so excited to share this with you in an upcoming blog. I feel as though in this amazing computer age that you really need both digital and hardcopy planning assistance and I have created the perfect way to have them both work hand in hand! (Stay Tuned!) I have however put together an awesome list of TO-DO's starting from 12 Months all the way to post wedding! You can find it and a whole lot of other downloads in our ATELIER BRIDES section (see the end of this post to sign up!)
BUDGET
It’s so important to sit down with your partner and talk about a budget. What does he/she think is reasonable to spend and how much can you afford. According to Wedded Wonderland the average couples are spending on their wedding in Australia in 2018 is $51,245 – a jump from 2017’s average of $48,624. For some this amount might seem ridiculous, for others it may seem totally reasonable. Until you’ve talked with your partner about it you can’t be realistic about your expectations for your wedding. If you are planning to sit down with your parents, his parents or both then you should come armed prepared with a few ideas of what your wedding might cost. Letting them know these average costs might give someone, who hasn’t planned a wedding in 25 years, an idea of what to expect and will save you from eye-rolls or scoffing later on in the planning. Another thing to note is that this is YOUR wedding. Yours and your partners, but if you choose to involve your families and take a contribution you need to be prepared to accept that they may have some strings attached to their funds. Maybe you will need to suck it up and invite Aunty Mildred in order to have that oversized floral centrepiece you always dreamed of. Or maybe the centrepiece isn’t worth the hassle. That, beautiful Bride-to-Be, is completely up to you and your partner. Just remember that your family is excited too, they want to show the world how lucky they are to have you. They raised you into an actual adulting-getting-married-human and want to share in that love and the excitement of your wedding day. Which brings me to my next subject…
It’s so important to sit down with your partner and talk about a budget. What does he/she think is reasonable to spend and how much can you afford. According to Wedded Wonderland the average couples are spending on their wedding in Australia in 2018 is $51,245 – a jump from 2017’s average of $48,624. For some this amount might seem ridiculous, for others it may seem totally reasonable. Until you’ve talked with your partner about it you can’t be realistic about your expectations for your wedding. If you are planning to sit down with your parents, his parents or both then you should come armed prepared with a few ideas of what your wedding might cost. Letting them know these average costs might give someone, who hasn’t planned a wedding in 25 years, an idea of what to expect and will save you from eye-rolls or scoffing later on in the planning. Another thing to note is that this is YOUR wedding. Yours and your partners, but if you choose to involve your families and take a contribution you need to be prepared to accept that they may have some strings attached to their funds. Maybe you will need to suck it up and invite Aunty Mildred in order to have that oversized floral centrepiece you always dreamed of. Or maybe the centrepiece isn’t worth the hassle. That, beautiful Bride-to-Be, is completely up to you and your partner. Just remember that your family is excited too, they want to show the world how lucky they are to have you. They raised you into an actual adulting-getting-married-human and want to share in that love and the excitement of your wedding day. Which brings me to my next subject…
YOUR MOTHER (and/or Mother in Law)
When we first got engaged my beautiful Mother was so so sooo excited, she was so happy and eager she asked me when, where, how, why, what about every wedding detail. I was so overwhelmed by the questions I just wasn’t ready to answer. It wasn’t until I called Rob sobbing and explaining it to him my mum had gone “Mother-of-the-bride-Zilla” that he said to me “She is excited, possibly more excited than you. You’ve dreamed of this day since you were 12, she has dreamed of this day from the moment you were born”, God bless that gorgeous man! He was right. I realized then that she just loves me and wants to play a big role in helping make my day everything I (We) dreamed and that I am so grateful to have such an amazing mum. So I started a note on my phone and popped in ideas and jobs of how to include my mum in the process and also jobs to include my mother in law, whom I love dearly. It was a great learning curve for me early on, that there is so much love and support around a wedding and it’s important to not only include these special people but also to delegate tasks. They are here to help and are excited to do so! So make sure you value and utilize their love and skills!
SET A DATE
This can be a tricky one. Your date might be swayed depending on the time of the year, the length of your engagement, or, maybe you ‘have-to-have’ a particular venue or vendor and their availability only falls on certain days. Usually you and your partner will have a few significant dates in your relationship which may fall on an ideal day to have your wedding. If you have a few dates in mind then note them down and talk to your preferred venues/vendors about the date and what the weather is like during that period of the year, whether their gardens are in bloom or full or green, whether their air conditioning can handle the height of summer. Make sure you are both happy with it and if its important to you, be sure to check with your close friends and family.
GUEST LIST
Before you can begin to choose a venue you need to decide on how many guests you want to be at your wedding. Many venues have requirements for maximum and minimum guests.
Start a preliminary rough guest list with EVERYONE on it. I segmented ours into groups of people eg Family, Bridal Party (BFFS), Close Friends, Work Friends, Uni Friends, Family Friends, Childhood Friends. Once you have groups then you can determine the importance of that group attending or if there are singular people in that group who MUST be there. Start with a larger list and cull it down to your Non Negotiable list and your Negotiable list. This way you can determine that you can afford to have all that you want. The guest list can be hard to nail down but just get started!
This can be a tricky one. Your date might be swayed depending on the time of the year, the length of your engagement, or, maybe you ‘have-to-have’ a particular venue or vendor and their availability only falls on certain days. Usually you and your partner will have a few significant dates in your relationship which may fall on an ideal day to have your wedding. If you have a few dates in mind then note them down and talk to your preferred venues/vendors about the date and what the weather is like during that period of the year, whether their gardens are in bloom or full or green, whether their air conditioning can handle the height of summer. Make sure you are both happy with it and if its important to you, be sure to check with your close friends and family.
GUEST LIST
Before you can begin to choose a venue you need to decide on how many guests you want to be at your wedding. Many venues have requirements for maximum and minimum guests.
Start a preliminary rough guest list with EVERYONE on it. I segmented ours into groups of people eg Family, Bridal Party (BFFS), Close Friends, Work Friends, Uni Friends, Family Friends, Childhood Friends. Once you have groups then you can determine the importance of that group attending or if there are singular people in that group who MUST be there. Start with a larger list and cull it down to your Non Negotiable list and your Negotiable list. This way you can determine that you can afford to have all that you want. The guest list can be hard to nail down but just get started!
Bouquet above Mrs Gibbons Flowers // Gelato Cart Wheel & Spoon
VENDORS
Finding vendors can be absolutely overwhelming! I am lucky enough to have so many amazing people I work with regularly to ask questions and get advice but for most people it’s asking friends who have been married or googling endlessly “amazing wedding photographer Brisbane”. When my brides book in their dream gown with us (at Begitta-Bridal & Couture!) they receive a special gift pack as well as access to our BRIDAL ROOM, inside we have a list of our absolute favourite vendors who I have personally worked with and used throughout the years. This list has been used by so many of my brides and friends and I am offering Free Access to “The Bridal Room” for all The Atelier Lovers. (see end of this post to join!)
Once you have an idea of the vendors you need to make sure you check out their work. Choosing a vintage style photographer is not going to give you those bright brilliant images you love. Make sure their feel feels good to you. Start enquiring and gathering quotes as soon as you can. This wil help give you a more realistic idea of what your wedding will cost and what to expect to spend. It's true in the wedding industry that you generally get what you pay for. A business or vendor with years of experience may mean that the cost is a little higher but the quality will be better and the process a lot smoother. When you've done something a hundred times you have seen a thousand possibilities and develop great contingency plans if a problem arises so experience is definitely something you want to look for in your "Wedding Squad". When making enquiries be sure to include your Wedding date or prospective dates to ensure they are available. As well as include your venue and location (there may be travel costs involved so you want to make sure you budget for those!).
Another great way to find vendors and meet up with heaps in one day is to visit a wedding fair or expo!
There are some amazing options out there depending on the style of wedding you are looking for. Google wedding expo/fair and your city to find a few close to you. We love One Fine Day Wedding Fairs for their mix of amazing vendors and beautifully curated events.
The most important thing to remember when choosing your vendors is that If you don’t feel “quite right” there are others to chose from so don’t feel to much pressure to say yes unless you feel good about your decision. If you don't feel quite right ask yourself what it is that makes you feel that way you may find its just anticipation or nerves. Don't rush things and talk it over with someone to ensure you do feel great about your decisions. BUT also remember to not sweat the small stuff. Most wedding vendors deal with nervous brides every day so if you have questions JUST ASK!
It's also always a great idea to make time to meet up with your vendors prior to booking them if you can. Get to know them and make sure you mesh well with them before you put down your deposit.
Eeek! Happy Planning!
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Whats Next?...
THE VENUE
We cannot wait to go start scoping out the place we will bring it all together!
Finding vendors can be absolutely overwhelming! I am lucky enough to have so many amazing people I work with regularly to ask questions and get advice but for most people it’s asking friends who have been married or googling endlessly “amazing wedding photographer Brisbane”. When my brides book in their dream gown with us (at Begitta-Bridal & Couture!) they receive a special gift pack as well as access to our BRIDAL ROOM, inside we have a list of our absolute favourite vendors who I have personally worked with and used throughout the years. This list has been used by so many of my brides and friends and I am offering Free Access to “The Bridal Room” for all The Atelier Lovers. (see end of this post to join!)
Once you have an idea of the vendors you need to make sure you check out their work. Choosing a vintage style photographer is not going to give you those bright brilliant images you love. Make sure their feel feels good to you. Start enquiring and gathering quotes as soon as you can. This wil help give you a more realistic idea of what your wedding will cost and what to expect to spend. It's true in the wedding industry that you generally get what you pay for. A business or vendor with years of experience may mean that the cost is a little higher but the quality will be better and the process a lot smoother. When you've done something a hundred times you have seen a thousand possibilities and develop great contingency plans if a problem arises so experience is definitely something you want to look for in your "Wedding Squad". When making enquiries be sure to include your Wedding date or prospective dates to ensure they are available. As well as include your venue and location (there may be travel costs involved so you want to make sure you budget for those!).
Another great way to find vendors and meet up with heaps in one day is to visit a wedding fair or expo!
There are some amazing options out there depending on the style of wedding you are looking for. Google wedding expo/fair and your city to find a few close to you. We love One Fine Day Wedding Fairs for their mix of amazing vendors and beautifully curated events.
The most important thing to remember when choosing your vendors is that If you don’t feel “quite right” there are others to chose from so don’t feel to much pressure to say yes unless you feel good about your decision. If you don't feel quite right ask yourself what it is that makes you feel that way you may find its just anticipation or nerves. Don't rush things and talk it over with someone to ensure you do feel great about your decisions. BUT also remember to not sweat the small stuff. Most wedding vendors deal with nervous brides every day so if you have questions JUST ASK!
It's also always a great idea to make time to meet up with your vendors prior to booking them if you can. Get to know them and make sure you mesh well with them before you put down your deposit.
Eeek! Happy Planning!
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Whats Next?...
THE VENUE
We cannot wait to go start scoping out the place we will bring it all together!
“Once in awhile, right in the middle of ordinary life, LOVE gives us a Fairy Tale”
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Our Modern Fairytale Engagement, featuring the most romantic, dreamy storybook setting amidst the beautiful greenery and structures of Evergreen Gardens. This storybook worthy shoot is what dreams are made of. A gathering of the most incredible wedding creatives in Queenland, setting the scene and creating pure magic in what was one of the most beautiful days of our lives.
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Our Modern Fairytale Engagement, featuring the most romantic, dreamy storybook setting amidst the beautiful greenery and structures of Evergreen Gardens. This storybook worthy shoot is what dreams are made of. A gathering of the most incredible wedding creatives in Queenland, setting the scene and creating pure magic in what was one of the most beautiful days of our lives.
The lead up to our engagement shoot was an absolute whirlwind, from arriving back from Melbourne to all the excitement of being newly engaged we were so totally blown away by the amazing team that came together to celebrate our love and the amazingness that Tanja of TM Event Planning pulled together. We had the most magical day and are so so excited to see our story featured on both WEDDED WONDERLAND and POLKA DOT BRIDE!!!
(click the names to see the gorgeousness!)
From the second I arrived at our Engagement Shoot I felt like an absolute queen! The location Evergreen Garden Venue was truly the setting for a beautiful storybook. The grounds of perfectly manicured grass and hedges with so many stunning backdrops of white stone and the French styled house.
I was whisked off to hair and makeup by the incredibly talented team from Bella Brides. We had previously discussed hair and makeup looks and I can honestly say that Lucie and Britt went BEYOND my expectations. We started with my hair styled in voluminous soft curls and then for the second look Lucie created a loose braid that looked effortlessly chic yet totally Princess worthy! The makeup was a soft smokey eye with a neutral tone lip, the makeup was totally flawless (all day) and the hair styling was pure magic! These ladies are pure genius!
(click the names to see the gorgeousness!)
From the second I arrived at our Engagement Shoot I felt like an absolute queen! The location Evergreen Garden Venue was truly the setting for a beautiful storybook. The grounds of perfectly manicured grass and hedges with so many stunning backdrops of white stone and the French styled house.
I was whisked off to hair and makeup by the incredibly talented team from Bella Brides. We had previously discussed hair and makeup looks and I can honestly say that Lucie and Britt went BEYOND my expectations. We started with my hair styled in voluminous soft curls and then for the second look Lucie created a loose braid that looked effortlessly chic yet totally Princess worthy! The makeup was a soft smokey eye with a neutral tone lip, the makeup was totally flawless (all day) and the hair styling was pure magic! These ladies are pure genius!
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Once I was dressed and ready in outfit number one featuring soft-blue sequins in a full length gown with puffed bishop sleeves and a long flowing silk chiffon belt skirt, for added drama! Rob arrived and we were taken to the beautiful space created by the amazing team. This first look was the warm up for the true princess gown – A specially made Begitta –Bridal & Couture confection of pastel blue – Made from over 35 square meters of tulle. Including hand draping over the bust and a detachable belt that makes up the 2-meter train. Pure bliss for any fairy-tale lover I was in my absolute element wearing it. NOTE: I have no idea how to trump this for the ‘Actual Wedding’ but I’m sure going to try!
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The styling was put together by the absolutely amazing Ngaire from Event Stylist & Co and Mandi of Ivy & Bleu Events both so incredibly talented at what they do and how totally spoilt were we to have TWO incredible ladies creating this dream setting!
The table was set with crystal, delicate glass charger plates and silverware fit for royalty. The setting featured the most beautiful hues of soft greys, blues, blushes, whites and creams. Small posies of florals littered the table in gorgeous mismatched crystal vases. The stationery was delicately crafted by Kelsi at KB Lettering. Kelsi did the most beautiful job creating menus, place cards and the most exquisite hand-calligraphy backdrop which made our Modern Fairy-tale even more storybook worthy.
Tanja from TM Events went totally above and beyond bringing to the shoot the most beautiful butterflies, from Butterfly Releases Australia, which we released into the sky, creating the most beautiful images and memories I could not imagine anything more dreamy until the arrival of the beautiful Zanna from Beautiful White Doves with two absolutely beautiful caged doves and ‘Minxie’ her divine hand reared white dove which we could hold and release her into the clouds on such a special occasion!
The table was set with crystal, delicate glass charger plates and silverware fit for royalty. The setting featured the most beautiful hues of soft greys, blues, blushes, whites and creams. Small posies of florals littered the table in gorgeous mismatched crystal vases. The stationery was delicately crafted by Kelsi at KB Lettering. Kelsi did the most beautiful job creating menus, place cards and the most exquisite hand-calligraphy backdrop which made our Modern Fairy-tale even more storybook worthy.
Tanja from TM Events went totally above and beyond bringing to the shoot the most beautiful butterflies, from Butterfly Releases Australia, which we released into the sky, creating the most beautiful images and memories I could not imagine anything more dreamy until the arrival of the beautiful Zanna from Beautiful White Doves with two absolutely beautiful caged doves and ‘Minxie’ her divine hand reared white dove which we could hold and release her into the clouds on such a special occasion!
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Meanwhile the ladies began to put together the dessert table, which was completely awe-inspiring. Not only was it flanked by the absolutely gorgeous doves, it was positively bursting with incredibly delicate sugary confections that were the thing of dreams. The totally delish duo at Two Little Bakers created what seemed like hundreds of cupcakes, tarts, macaroons and the most perfect teeny-tiny macaroons topped with sugar pearls and metallic details. Then there was the cake! A totally divine tall cream coloured tower studded in pearls and silver leaf that had us all salivating. Adorned with gorgeous delicate blooms and surrounded by the most delicious macaroons I have ever sampled… And I practically lived at Laduree in Paris!
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My dream would not be complete without divine blooms from Ivy & Bleu, the Bouquet itself was totally next level! Mandi created the most lush, untamed bouquet, one of her signature styles, filled with roses, beautiful small berries and oodles of greenery trickling out.
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The entire day ran so smoothly and Kaitlin from Kaitlin Maree Photography made us feel so comfortable and a lot like celebrities! It wasn’t until the images were delivered in the most chic white box, on the most chic white USB, that I squealed and then cried, Kim-Kardash-Style. The imagery and moments she captured have absolutely blown Rob and I away. We can’t even believe it! You can see by these stunning pics how extremely talented Kaitlin is!
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We are so grateful to the amazing team who came together to create
THE MOST MAGICAL DAY OF OUR LIVES
- To date (Of Course!)
We could not be more appreciative of each and every one of you and the true beauty that you brought to such a special chapter in our lives. These images will be on our wall for the next hundred years and we could not love them more!
From the bottom of our hearts, Thank you.
THE MOST MAGICAL DAY OF OUR LIVES
- To date (Of Course!)
We could not be more appreciative of each and every one of you and the true beauty that you brought to such a special chapter in our lives. These images will be on our wall for the next hundred years and we could not love them more!
From the bottom of our hearts, Thank you.
Photographer: Kaitlin Maree Photography / Event Planner: TM Event Planning / Styling: Ivy & Bleu / Styling: Event Stylist & Co / Gown Designer: Begitta –Bridal & Couture / Hair & Makeup Artist: Bella Brides / Venue: Evergreen Garden Venue / Sweet Treats: Two Little Bakers / Invitations & Stationery: KB Lettering / Doves: Beautiful White Doves / Engagement Ring: My Jewellery Shop / Prop HIre: Innovative Hiring / Butterflies: Butterfly Releases Australia
The Mood Board...
The Excitement...
We had the absolute pleasure over this past weekend to be invited to showcase at the gorgeous Summergrove Estate for the Tweed Wedding Trail.
This innovative event showcased multiple northern NSW venues on the same day with a gorgeous map that led each bride, groom and their friends and family to the to view each location in all its glory.
Every venue had it's own set of incredible wedding vendors that transformed the venue into a dreamy styled space. I was asked to showcase some of our favourite Begitta - Bridal & Couture gowns and also to have two gorgeous models roam around the property wearing dreamy dresses. Working with an amazing group of vendors The Barn at the picturesque Summergrove became the place of dreams!
Our gorgeous models/muses had their hair perfectly primped by the ever so talented Amy Spry Hair and Makeup and their effortless yet flawless makeup created by Bexi Makeup Artistry. With tablescapes put together by Arctic Fox Hire adorned with stunning florals by the talented Mrs Gibbons Flowers. The venue just beamed with beautiful sunbeams that lit up the whole room from floor to (super high) ceiling!
Such an absolutely beautiful day and we were so thrilled to be a part of it! It was so wonderful to meet so many beautiful vendors and so many gorgeous "Brides-to-Be's"! And how incredibly awe-inspiring is this dreamy venue....
This innovative event showcased multiple northern NSW venues on the same day with a gorgeous map that led each bride, groom and their friends and family to the to view each location in all its glory.
Every venue had it's own set of incredible wedding vendors that transformed the venue into a dreamy styled space. I was asked to showcase some of our favourite Begitta - Bridal & Couture gowns and also to have two gorgeous models roam around the property wearing dreamy dresses. Working with an amazing group of vendors The Barn at the picturesque Summergrove became the place of dreams!
Our gorgeous models/muses had their hair perfectly primped by the ever so talented Amy Spry Hair and Makeup and their effortless yet flawless makeup created by Bexi Makeup Artistry. With tablescapes put together by Arctic Fox Hire adorned with stunning florals by the talented Mrs Gibbons Flowers. The venue just beamed with beautiful sunbeams that lit up the whole room from floor to (super high) ceiling!
Such an absolutely beautiful day and we were so thrilled to be a part of it! It was so wonderful to meet so many beautiful vendors and so many gorgeous "Brides-to-Be's"! And how incredibly awe-inspiring is this dreamy venue....
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// Images: The Atelier / Venue: ‘The Barn’ Summergrove Estate / Florals: Mrs Gibbons Flowers / Gowns: Begitta – Bridal & Couture /Hair: Amy Spry Hair and Makeup / Makeup: Bexi Makeup / Hire: Arctic Fox / Napkins & Cutlery: Supper Club Co / Stationery: Love Notes Australia / Crockery: Cindy Hamrey / Silk Ribbon: Songbird Silk / For Casuarina Weddings //
"Inspired by the essence of Disney, Once Upon A Dream is an homage to the stories and characters that have captured the heart and spirit of generations."
Paolo Sebastian has stolen our hearts with this whimsical Disney inspired collection "Once Upon a Dream". Taking elements from each of our favourite disney's and magically crafting these exquisite gowns taking on the runway at Perth Fashion Week, Australia.
Pure Dreams!
Pure Dreams!
Image Source: Paolo Sebastian
THE ENGAGEMENT SHOOT
I was absolutely blown away when we go home from Melbourne after our big engagement and I had a message in my inbox from the beautiful Tanja, a gorgeous model and planner I have had the pleasure of working with and an incredible team of wedding vendors saying they had all had a chat and wanted to create our dream Engagement shoot! Holy Guacamole! We were so blown away by the incredibly thoughtful and totally generous offer and still am in a little bit of a spin that these incredible people have come into our lives and have offered such a beautiful and heartfelt gift! Eeek!
So the first thing was to throw around a few ideas of what we might like to do. I had a few ideas which I had been brewing for, let’s face it, forever. Second to the wedding day itself, this is a chance to get creative with our “Love Story” and what we love. It definitely makes it so easy that a bunch of incredibly talented people are there to help us make these dreams come true!
So I popped onto Pinterest (“Every Bride-to-Be’s Bible!”) and found a few pictures that offered a visual to what I would love to create. Gauging from the team their ideas and inspirations. I am a huge lover of Disney and fairy tales so everything I had in mind sort of circled around those! I have seen some super gorgeous pictures of couples wearing large character heads and cute outfits, running around getting some really fun, cute pictures. But I knew that wasn’t really something Rob would enjoy as much as I would! We are definitely both ‘Old Romantic’s and love old-world charm so one of my other ideas (and most favourite) was a sort of Modern Fairy-tale.
A gentle nod to one of my favourite Disneys, Cinderella. I have always called Rob my Prince and always said I would marry one, and here is my chance to live a day like a Queen and what a great excuse to make an epic gown (or 2!)!!!
So our fabulous team of vendors started dreaming up ideas that would work with the theme.
With the beautiful Tanja at the helm, bringing and collaborating with all the vendors, she has put together the most amazing team! The incredibly talented Ngaire from Event Stylist & Co along with floral genius and event stylist Mandi, Ivy & Bleu Events, will be putting together an epic table-scape and beautiful styling that will create a dream fairy-tale setting.
Bringing our vision to life would not be possible without these incredible people and I am absolutely jumping out of my skin with excitement chatting to Mandi about what her and Ngaire have planned “We are super excited to play apart in creating this memory for you! Think hanging florals in wisteria lane and classic white blooms. Myself & Nagire wanted to make the styling and florals simple and elegant, yet impactful, to ensure the main things stood out - the stunning venue and you in that dress (oh and the prince of course). From crystal cut glass to the twinkling ambience of candlelit under the tabernacle every element of the styling and florals is being hand crafted to make dreams come true.”
We also have the incredible KB Lettering creating some beautiful stationery and something a little bit special to go in the setting of the exquisite Evergreen Garden Venue. Evergreen is full of gorgeous secret nooks and perfectly preened hedges. A place in itself, a fairy-tale and the perfect location to hold such a beautiful shoot! Or a small intimate wedding if you are so inclined. ;)
And it would seem you can’t have a beautiful table set without something sweet upon it! The amazing Two Little Bakers providing delish morsels and macarons (My favourite), I don’t know how we will resist not eating everything before we shoot it!
The fabulous team at Bella Brides Hair & Makeup will be turning me into a true princess. Eeeek! I hope they’re ready for that challenge!
To capture all this magic, a skill she is truly incredible at doing, is Kaitlin Maree Photography. An absolutely talented woman who seems to make real life look like a fairytale. She will be “Capturing this heavenly and romantic session in a way that is classic and subtle” with her whisper soft imagery. And of course I will be creating a dreamy gown to wear, something beautifully fairytale and delicately romantic!
Have a peek at our MOODBOARD below or better yet, follow along via pinterest right HERE!
I was absolutely blown away when we go home from Melbourne after our big engagement and I had a message in my inbox from the beautiful Tanja, a gorgeous model and planner I have had the pleasure of working with and an incredible team of wedding vendors saying they had all had a chat and wanted to create our dream Engagement shoot! Holy Guacamole! We were so blown away by the incredibly thoughtful and totally generous offer and still am in a little bit of a spin that these incredible people have come into our lives and have offered such a beautiful and heartfelt gift! Eeek!
So the first thing was to throw around a few ideas of what we might like to do. I had a few ideas which I had been brewing for, let’s face it, forever. Second to the wedding day itself, this is a chance to get creative with our “Love Story” and what we love. It definitely makes it so easy that a bunch of incredibly talented people are there to help us make these dreams come true!
So I popped onto Pinterest (“Every Bride-to-Be’s Bible!”) and found a few pictures that offered a visual to what I would love to create. Gauging from the team their ideas and inspirations. I am a huge lover of Disney and fairy tales so everything I had in mind sort of circled around those! I have seen some super gorgeous pictures of couples wearing large character heads and cute outfits, running around getting some really fun, cute pictures. But I knew that wasn’t really something Rob would enjoy as much as I would! We are definitely both ‘Old Romantic’s and love old-world charm so one of my other ideas (and most favourite) was a sort of Modern Fairy-tale.
A gentle nod to one of my favourite Disneys, Cinderella. I have always called Rob my Prince and always said I would marry one, and here is my chance to live a day like a Queen and what a great excuse to make an epic gown (or 2!)!!!
So our fabulous team of vendors started dreaming up ideas that would work with the theme.
With the beautiful Tanja at the helm, bringing and collaborating with all the vendors, she has put together the most amazing team! The incredibly talented Ngaire from Event Stylist & Co along with floral genius and event stylist Mandi, Ivy & Bleu Events, will be putting together an epic table-scape and beautiful styling that will create a dream fairy-tale setting.
Bringing our vision to life would not be possible without these incredible people and I am absolutely jumping out of my skin with excitement chatting to Mandi about what her and Ngaire have planned “We are super excited to play apart in creating this memory for you! Think hanging florals in wisteria lane and classic white blooms. Myself & Nagire wanted to make the styling and florals simple and elegant, yet impactful, to ensure the main things stood out - the stunning venue and you in that dress (oh and the prince of course). From crystal cut glass to the twinkling ambience of candlelit under the tabernacle every element of the styling and florals is being hand crafted to make dreams come true.”
We also have the incredible KB Lettering creating some beautiful stationery and something a little bit special to go in the setting of the exquisite Evergreen Garden Venue. Evergreen is full of gorgeous secret nooks and perfectly preened hedges. A place in itself, a fairy-tale and the perfect location to hold such a beautiful shoot! Or a small intimate wedding if you are so inclined. ;)
And it would seem you can’t have a beautiful table set without something sweet upon it! The amazing Two Little Bakers providing delish morsels and macarons (My favourite), I don’t know how we will resist not eating everything before we shoot it!
The fabulous team at Bella Brides Hair & Makeup will be turning me into a true princess. Eeeek! I hope they’re ready for that challenge!
To capture all this magic, a skill she is truly incredible at doing, is Kaitlin Maree Photography. An absolutely talented woman who seems to make real life look like a fairytale. She will be “Capturing this heavenly and romantic session in a way that is classic and subtle” with her whisper soft imagery. And of course I will be creating a dreamy gown to wear, something beautifully fairytale and delicately romantic!
Have a peek at our MOODBOARD below or better yet, follow along via pinterest right HERE!
.... BUT WAIT THERE’S MORE!
Tanja has also organised a few surprise vendors! Perhaps a few extra models! So make sure you check out our Instagram stories via @Begitta on August 16th to see the little sneak peeks!
A little peek at the creating of the gown...
Photography: KAITLIN MAREE PHOTOHRAPHY // Event Planner: TANJA MEYER // Event Stylist: EVENT STYLIST AND CO // Florals/Stylist: IVY AND BLEU EVENTS // Gown Designer: BEGITTA -BRIDAL & COUTURE // Hair & Makeup: BELLA BRIDES // Stationary: KB LETTERING // Sweets: TWO LITTLE BAKERS // Venue: EVERGREEN GARDEN VENUE
- Tips & Tricks-
If you're planning your wedding and you're not on Pinterest you MUST check it out! An incredible platform where you can create your own moodboards and hone your ideas and find so much incredible inspiration! But the biggest tip is that once your ideas are locked in, try not to be swayed by new inspiration and stick to the plans you already have!
If you're planning your wedding and you're not on Pinterest you MUST check it out! An incredible platform where you can create your own moodboards and hone your ideas and find so much incredible inspiration! But the biggest tip is that once your ideas are locked in, try not to be swayed by new inspiration and stick to the plans you already have!
-From Our Wedding Friends-
Q: What is one wedding trend you are loving for the coming year?
A's:
@KAITLINMAREEPHOTOGRAPHY: "Big, romantic florals becoming normal!"
@IVYANDBLEUEVENTS: "I love the soft, natural & organic colours, textures and overall look that is coming forward in styling atm. "
Q: What is one wedding trend you are loving for the coming year?
A's:
@KAITLINMAREEPHOTOGRAPHY: "Big, romantic florals becoming normal!"
@IVYANDBLEUEVENTS: "I love the soft, natural & organic colours, textures and overall look that is coming forward in styling atm. "
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